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Are You Easily Offended?

In my 'about me', I apologised for sometimes being late in replying to messages.
Yesterday, I told one guy that I would chat to him today as it was getting too late last night and I had to get up for work.
A short while ago he sent me this:

.......... 46-50, M
I see you are not interested in talking to me. Goodbye.

I didn't even know he was on. He asked in one of his posts where are the 'nice people' .. ?
Perhaps he should try being one.
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I am sensitive about some things, but one thing I’ve always understood about the internet is that people still have lives offline. You see folks when you see them. 😄

But that fellow is pretty notorious for trying to guilt women. You’ve not lost anything. I’m surprised he’s still at it.
🤔
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@bijouxbroussard I thought he might have blocked me but he hasn't, maybe I still have that to come - no loss though! 😄
Richard65 · M
You're good looking and he probably took it as a rejection from a woman he really wanted to get to know. It doesn’t bode well for him if that's the level of patience and empathy he has for the women he's trying to befriend. I think you dodged a bullet.
Of course, I might be completely wrong and you've blown it with the most desirable guy on here...😄
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@Richard65 It's a risk I'm willing to take.. 😄
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
Patients in today's world of point and click to get a reply or order makes people less patient unfortunately.

And if he has his profile set to not show when he is online here and available to chat then that is a double bogie on his part.
496sbc · 36-40, M
Now a days u got now choice. Every one must know now we can only send one msg. So that auto block I always thought about is here now. And in the old days you could never tell if someone wanted bto really chat unless they msg u.
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@496sbc One message? I never knew that.
496sbc · 36-40, M
@smallstone it's true
SWORDNEN · 26-30, MNew
I got blocked by a girl, really sweet looking with glasses, I told her she looked like velma from scooby doo,

She said not like Daphne ?
I said since she had glasses and a pretty eyes I think velma was more accurate imagination


I got blocked


That was whole conversation
I still don't know what I did wrong 🤣
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@SWORDNEN People are unbelievable!
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
I'm not even like that if we pm I'll send you a message in reply and if you reply back I will keep talking to you if you don't I usually just let it slide the only time I take offense now if it's been like months then I might say whatever and then blow you off but if it's a few hours days or even a couple weeks I'm not too worried about it people do have lives
eyeno · M
If I'm In a serious relationship I'll always say, "watch what you say, I take it literally.".

daydeeo · 61-69, M
I'm not easily offended. Life is much too short to be nursing grievances, real or imagined.
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@daydeeo True!
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
Remember the motto of some people is, It's all about ME!

You may know other people like that not on SW.
Elessar · 26-30, M
I'm not, but when I fire back they certainly do or assume I am lol

The older I'm getting, the more I realize when people complain about you getting "offended" in reality are just upset because you won't take passively/silently whatever they want to say
TheShanachie · 61-69, M
Not at all on here I don’t often message anyone anyway. Some people take this place too seriously.
Starchild1983 · 41-45, F
That’s super common here unfortunately
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@Degbeme Sob - stop it - it's turning into a Mexican Wave ... Bahwahah .......
Sidewinder · 36-40, M
I used to be offended by many things when I was but a young lad, but over time, the number of things that offend me have gradually dwindled.
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@Sidewinder I think they do in time. I find that too.
Ugh, he’s notorious for doing that. Been happening for a long time. You dodged a bullet.
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@OlderSometimesWiser Really? Haha - I'm well out of it then!
exexec · 70-79, C
I really don't know what it would take to offend me. It hasn't happened in many years.
Lilymoon · F
This is why I rarely PM... I don't need the aggravation. 🤦‍♀
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
They have to get over it. Yes, it can be very fun here. But we do have to get stuff done in our real life.
Blackie · 51-55, M
Sounds like he’s a needy little girl, good riddance. If you do respond tell him you prefer talking to men and not boys. 😁
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@Blackie I think I'll just keep quiet and ignore him!
Blackie · 51-55, M
@smallstone good choice. out of sight out of mind
Ferric67 · M
Maybe 🤷‍♂ (Because many times, people unintentionally or inadvertently might do so)
But I quickly get over it and forget about it
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
He must of litterally been waiting up for you all night!
JackOatMon · 46-50, M
No, i am not. Dont put time limits on PMs, people to have real lives.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Yeah I'm easily offended I cry about my experiences here all the time
Ducky · 31-35, F
I know exactly who that is. He's probably one of the most sensitive creeps we have on here and he's been around for years. I'm sure his parents are proud of him.
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@Ducky Years? And he hasn't learned patience? Haha - feel a bit sorry for him now!
Ducky · 31-35, F
@smallstone Clearly something wrong with him, lol. But no excuse for bad behavior.
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@Ducky No, you're right, it's childish on his part.
pdockal · 56-60, M
I've got very thick skin
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@pdockal Good - I'll message you on 18th August 2034 at 7pm GMT. 👍😜
pdockal · 56-60, M
@smallstone

I'll be waiting patiently with bells on
Allelse · 36-40, M
No, but I easily offend.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
My offer of friendship is time sensitive, so you have to answer within 20 minutes :P
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@WillaKissing You missed the deal then, and that's not all! You also would have received this hand-crafted potato peeler!
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@JimboSaturn Well dang it, my loss.
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@JimboSaturn Make it 25 mins - I might be guzzling a brandy.
Bri89 · 31-35, M
I don't think so.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Depends on how many drinks I've had :P
daydeeo · 61-69, M
🙄 Isn't it odd that he can't find any friendly people??
Some people here give you a certain amount of time then they're out lol no loss
Fairydust · F
No I’m not easily offended.

I grew up in a family that would take the p1ss out of each other.

Too many snowflakes lol
wetncthru · F
Dermatoligists like SW ... so many rice paper thin skins here!
Wizardry · 46-50, M
Canicu69 · 70-79, M
Never. I don’t have Time to be offended. Too much effort wasted
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@Canicu69 Exactly.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Oh my gawd
🙄
Convivial · 26-30, F
As someone once said, offence is taken, not given ;)
smiler2012 · 61-69
@smallstone🤔 have they blocked you too add insult to injury
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@smiler2012 Just checked - no, he hasn't.. but after this post, he might .. 🫢
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I would not sweat it. Some people are just too damn entitled.
ABCDEF7 · M
He switched to, "Now or Never".
smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@ABCDEF7 Now I have Elvis singing in my head!
ABCDEF7 · M
@smallstone Better than thinking about that guy.
Why do you care? Clearly he's a couple of cans short of a six pack - block him or ignore him from now on.
👹🥵🤬👿
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smallstone · 36-40, FNew
@DonaldTrumpet Think you're right.
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@smallstone IMZ AlWayZ HuNz

 
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