KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
That's easy we have to get what we've lost as a culture back but therein lies the problem a lot of the good values that were taught when I was a child and those before me when many kids in school would be let out early to go deer hunting are gone. Parents now want to be their children's best friend nobody is taught discipline anymore at home let alone right and wrong or responsibility and ethics and therefore when they go off it's treated like a minor incident. Parents want to deny when their child has real problems and ignore the problem thinking it will go away. Schools are not allowed to discipline children anymore and spankings are now considered child abuse and then you wonder why it is only law enforcement that is left to deal with the situation. Guns are not the problem guns have been around for 400 years the problem is society today. And if you really want to know the bottom line I will give it to you simple an armed Society is a polite Society when everyone is equal on footing nobody steps out of line. Wild West Case in point
ArishMell · 70-79, M
Firstly by stopping bitter party-political bickering over the problem and addressing it in a non-partisan way.
Then by rooting out the cultural drives by which violence, especially shooting and the worship of guns, is so taken for granted.
That's not and should not be a political-party matter, but a social one.
There must be something in US society so different from any other developed country. "School shootings" and similar atrocities with no clear purpose, distinct from terrorist, civil-war or drug-gang violence, do occur in other countries but are very rare.
So what is different and how do you deal with it?
Then by rooting out the cultural drives by which violence, especially shooting and the worship of guns, is so taken for granted.
That's not and should not be a political-party matter, but a social one.
There must be something in US society so different from any other developed country. "School shootings" and similar atrocities with no clear purpose, distinct from terrorist, civil-war or drug-gang violence, do occur in other countries but are very rare.
So what is different and how do you deal with it?
I don't think there is a great answer if we (the American people) want to keep access to guns.
The next thing I would be interested in trying is...
The NFL stopped fans from running onto the field by stop showing them... the lack of visual and the lack of news about them, significantly reduced the number of times it happens.
Everything time it happens, and it's all over the news, that's just free advertisement of it giving the idea to a whole new group of people...
I wonder what would happen if we stopped accidentally advertising it, and stop the idea from getting into upset people's head, if it would then significantly decrease.
Of course, that's never going to happen, as freedom of the media, and the fact that negative news and sex both do the best selling. So news wants to over cover stories like that.
But I don't know what else to try...
The next thing I would be interested in trying is...
The NFL stopped fans from running onto the field by stop showing them... the lack of visual and the lack of news about them, significantly reduced the number of times it happens.
Everything time it happens, and it's all over the news, that's just free advertisement of it giving the idea to a whole new group of people...
I wonder what would happen if we stopped accidentally advertising it, and stop the idea from getting into upset people's head, if it would then significantly decrease.
Of course, that's never going to happen, as freedom of the media, and the fact that negative news and sex both do the best selling. So news wants to over cover stories like that.
But I don't know what else to try...
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@ArishMell Until you think of the Philpot murders when all we really know are the "parents" who murdered their children to get a bigger house.
I guess houses don't get much bigger than the jailhouse, eh, Mick and Mairade??? BTW, he's up for release soon...
I guess houses don't get much bigger than the jailhouse, eh, Mick and Mairade??? BTW, he's up for release soon...
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@HootyTheNightOwl It is variable, with no consistency.
The case of James Bulger - killed by two older children - is often named after his surname, which seems rather impersonal and cold.
On the other hand, people still talk of "The Yorkshire Ripper", not using his real name (which I forget) nor that of his victims.
The case of James Bulger - killed by two older children - is often named after his surname, which seems rather impersonal and cold.
On the other hand, people still talk of "The Yorkshire Ripper", not using his real name (which I forget) nor that of his victims.
@ArishMell Yeah, that seriously pisses me off, too. James Bulger was just 2 years old and far too young to have embarked on a life of crime - at least use his full name and his first name, too. His mother has worked tirelessly to make sure that James was never forgotten.
I had hoped that James' mother might have campaigned to change that so that the media has to use his (and everyone else's) first name. I mean, you can't even argue that it's for "space saving reasons" when the name "James" is shorter than the name "Bulger". You are older than me, so you might be able to better remember if the media had no access to James' first name at around the time he was murdered???
I know that there was a blackout of his name at the time of his death... but all we knew about baby Peter for a while is that he was "Baby P", so I'm thinking that they call James Bulger by his last name because that's all they had access to...
Alitt (I refuse to use it's first name, and I know that you will know who I am referring to) is another example of where a crime is known more by the murderer than by the babies that were killed.
I had hoped that James' mother might have campaigned to change that so that the media has to use his (and everyone else's) first name. I mean, you can't even argue that it's for "space saving reasons" when the name "James" is shorter than the name "Bulger". You are older than me, so you might be able to better remember if the media had no access to James' first name at around the time he was murdered???
I know that there was a blackout of his name at the time of his death... but all we knew about baby Peter for a while is that he was "Baby P", so I'm thinking that they call James Bulger by his last name because that's all they had access to...
Alitt (I refuse to use it's first name, and I know that you will know who I am referring to) is another example of where a crime is known more by the murderer than by the babies that were killed.
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
As a trained and Certified Search and Rescue Expert and volunteer, I have been in mock 'Active School Shooter' exercises.
The short answer is ...anything from a Walther P22 to a Desert Eagle .50 Caliber brought out from safe hiding and put in the face of a school shooter will slow him down significantly.

The safest place on the planet for a school shooter to shoot people and children is where guns are not allowed.
Of course, common sense doesn't make sense to those that don't have any ...just saying.
Got that Mr Bot? ...lol
The short answer is ...anything from a Walther P22 to a Desert Eagle .50 Caliber brought out from safe hiding and put in the face of a school shooter will slow him down significantly.

The safest place on the planet for a school shooter to shoot people and children is where guns are not allowed.
Of course, common sense doesn't make sense to those that don't have any ...just saying.
Got that Mr Bot? ...lol
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@laurieluvsit exactly
ffony · M
@laurieluvsit Good grief.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@laurieluvsit I don't know about your school but my had guns I seen them
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Clear plastic student lockers.
Dress codes that make it difficult to carry concealed weapons.
Subjective written assignments (to give staff a glimpse at what students are thinking)
Small classrooms 20 or less. desks in circles so students can't hide
Diverse activities where everyone can find a niche
Devote as much attention to underachievers as overachievers
Frequent interaction between teachers and parents
Student honor code
Dress codes that make it difficult to carry concealed weapons.
Subjective written assignments (to give staff a glimpse at what students are thinking)
Small classrooms 20 or less. desks in circles so students can't hide
Diverse activities where everyone can find a niche
Devote as much attention to underachievers as overachievers
Frequent interaction between teachers and parents
Student honor code
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SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Heartlander We are going through the same process in reverse in the UK in that the government has ended the VAT exemption that has for years inexplicably been applied to private education on the assumption that private schools are somehow charitable institutions. When this was first announced back in October there were widespread predictions that the state sector would be overwhelmed with additional demand . . this has not happened . . which is somewhat of a pity because one of the objectives was to break down social barriers between children.
I like diversity and innovation in education. However, at the end of the day all that is needed for a child to thrive at school is to know that she is safe and valued (and a well stocked library).
I like diversity and innovation in education. However, at the end of the day all that is needed for a child to thrive at school is to know that she is safe and valued (and a well stocked library).
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@SunshineGirl It's always been a contested issue here. Contributions to both churches and (not for profit) private schools are tax deductible, but private schools can't use the donation to offset an individual tuition. Churches parishes, on the other hand, often have no tuition and provide the education free of charges ... but with the unspoken and general understanding that contributions to the church have to be sufficient to operate the schools. There is an occasional "that's not fair" voice raised, but the volume of church parishes that operate schools makes it an issue that the government would be cautious about confronting. Practically every Catholic parish in the US operates a school to cover grades through 7th or 8th. As do many Episcopal, Jewish and other religions congregations.
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Maybe a good place to start is to look at the differences between today’s students and students when there weren’t school shootings. Look at the differences between family sizes, between whether both parents worked or not, between two parents and single parent households.
How many shooters had no one at home waiting for them when they returned home after school? How many shooters had no brothers or sisters to share and interact with and learn how to get along with?
This isn’t about assessing blame but more to suggest that maybe schools should find ways to fill the gap for what may have been missing from kids home life.
How many shooters had no one at home waiting for them when they returned home after school? How many shooters had no brothers or sisters to share and interact with and learn how to get along with?
This isn’t about assessing blame but more to suggest that maybe schools should find ways to fill the gap for what may have been missing from kids home life.
Kwek00 · 41-45, M
You don't have to reinvent hot water...
Just look at other countries, the measures they take and the results that they get.
Another thing that needs to happen, is a cultural shift. Certain myths need to be questioned. Like the idea that having a gun keeps tyrants at bay, is ludicrous considering historical events. Also, using this argument and actively voting for an authoritarian demagogue who is installing a dictatorship... makes no sense.
Just look at other countries, the measures they take and the results that they get.
Another thing that needs to happen, is a cultural shift. Certain myths need to be questioned. Like the idea that having a gun keeps tyrants at bay, is ludicrous considering historical events. Also, using this argument and actively voting for an authoritarian demagogue who is installing a dictatorship... makes no sense.
Some things aren’t like gravity or the law of thermo-dynamics; they don’t have to happen. They happen only if people are stupid enough to allow them to happen. Here, on this island, we haven’t allowed them to happen, so the “cosmic joke” hasn’t been played on us. We’ve had good sanitation for the best part of the century-and still we’re not overcrowded, we’re not miserable, we’re not under dictatorship.
And the reason is simple: “We chose to behave in a sensible and realistic way.”
- Aldous Huxley, Island
And the reason is simple: “We chose to behave in a sensible and realistic way.”
- Aldous Huxley, Island
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Kwek00 Sadly this is one myth a sizeable chunk of the American population is not yet willing to abandon.
KatyO83 · 41-45, F
Close all schools and have kids taught remotely at home.
You could ban guns like we did in the UK after Dunblane but that seemingly is impossible in the USA.
You could ban guns like we did in the UK after Dunblane but that seemingly is impossible in the USA.
22Michelle · 61-69, T
@RICHARD1313 My reading is that it was to ensure the USA had a military force to defend the country. As for taking up arms against the Government the 14th amendment says no.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@22Michelle What they do show is that the Constitution can be amended - albeit with strong safeguards to ensure that is done properly and openly.
22Michelle · 61-69, T
@ArishMell Try telling the NRA the 2nd amendment can be amended!
Adogslife · 61-69, M
You can still allow guns in the US. You just need to make the licensing harder. It’s access to semiautomatic weapons that cause the greatest issue. So, if it’s harder to get that license, access is removed from the young “student” shooter.
22Michelle · 61-69, T
@Adogslife Apparently 46% of all the civilian held guns in the world are held in the USA.
22Michelle · 61-69, T
@22Michelle And, to be honest, I agree with those who say guns aren't the real problem, its people. So obviously Americans should not be allowed to have guns in the first place.
4meAndyou · F
You are asking how to solve the untreated mental health issue in the USA. Teachers have to become far more sensitive and aware of the warning signs.
Adstar · 56-60, M
Searches before any students can enter a school..
A metal detector would be a good investment..
Armed and trained teachers..
A metal detector would be a good investment..
Armed and trained teachers..
NerdyPotato · M
@Adstar so subject students to the same treatment was prisoners? Or just move all education to prisons, as the facilities are already there?
AlanAPartridge · M
Schools are supposed to be the fortresses of learning, not the O.K. Corral.
In the UK we learnt that a mentally unstable man playing cowboy in a school isn't particularly desirable.
In America it's like going to school in Call of Duty: SAT Edition!
If you Americans are looking for a school guard you should've hired my old dinner lady, Glenda, she could spot a mars bar in a school blazer from 20 feet away, never mind a glock!
In the UK we learnt that a mentally unstable man playing cowboy in a school isn't particularly desirable.
In America it's like going to school in Call of Duty: SAT Edition!
If you Americans are looking for a school guard you should've hired my old dinner lady, Glenda, she could spot a mars bar in a school blazer from 20 feet away, never mind a glock!
FreeSpirit1 · F
Treat schools like our Federal Court and Government buildings.
The politicians protect themselves we can do the same for kids. It's not that difficult
The politicians protect themselves we can do the same for kids. It's not that difficult
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
1st you stop sensationalizing it they do it to be infamous, to be seen and you treat them like rockstars. So treat them like they are nothing and make it all about the victims. Refer to them as the shooter only dont even use their names.
2ndly, Dont give them Burger King and treat them with humanity.
The issue will never be resolved because there will always be evil in this world.
There are parents who give their children guns as birthday gifts.. It just is!
2ndly, Dont give them Burger King and treat them with humanity.
The issue will never be resolved because there will always be evil in this world.
There are parents who give their children guns as birthday gifts.. It just is!
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@KingofBones1 i agree with you its a parenting problem but giving a child a BB gun is one thing, and AK is another. Google NRA Start em Young and hit Images
These are kids at an NRA convention.
Times have changed since you received your little hunting rifle from Me-Maw 😅😅😅
These are kids at an NRA convention.
Times have changed since you received your little hunting rifle from Me-Maw 😅😅😅
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@AngelUnforgiven actually that's completely wrong I find that insulting and honestly I went through the NRA course as a 9-year-old they had a two-day safety course that you had to pass in order to get a hunting license and there is a time and place for automatic rifles I've owned several of them and none of them have committed a crime
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@AngelUnforgiven and by the way of which I am made paid up for life member just like I am a member of the American Legion people more people should attend and read less propaganda
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
Fire everyone on the Supreme Court. Hire new people that are not affiliated with any party. Anyone that is affiliated to a party is automatically disqualified.
Once there is a decent number of them, look at everything that has been passed by the Supreme court the past 30 years and re-evaluate. Make changes to better America, fix the constitution, get rid of dangerous weapons. Right all the wrongs that have been done to date.
Once there is a decent number of them, look at everything that has been passed by the Supreme court the past 30 years and re-evaluate. Make changes to better America, fix the constitution, get rid of dangerous weapons. Right all the wrongs that have been done to date.
sunsporter1649 · 70-79, M
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
How about first we consider, ummm, what the parents did to the child in the home that lead the child to such things?
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@nobodyishome
Having grown up when neighborhoods were stable and when we had neighborhood schools, the teachers knew who I was and who my parents were before I even set foot at school.
Having grown up when neighborhoods were stable and when we had neighborhood schools, the teachers knew who I was and who my parents were before I even set foot at school.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@nobodyishome Maybe, but you need take that as just one of many possible factors.
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
Metal detectors
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@AngelUnforgiven we all want the same things in life, I've lived in all types of neighborhoods throughout my life
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@MyNameIsHurl absolutely
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@MyNameIsHurl So, then the shooter just open fire outside the school on unloading school busses. There is no way to avoid mass shootings except to get the guns out of the hands of the killers.
Jungleman · M
i don't think there has been any school shootings for some time, at least i haven't heard of any.
22Michelle · 61-69, T
@Jungleman Can't find the stats for specifically school shootings, but mass shootings (more tha 4 victims) so far this year, 118 dead and 338 wounded in 91 events.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Mental health care
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Smaller, neighborhood schools, stable neighborhoods and communities.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
I guess theres only one way.
Close the schools.
Close the schools.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
Close all schools.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Enact gun control like most of the rest of the sane nations in the world.
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
Get rid of the drugs that are being used to control innocent people's mind.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Who laughed at this Qs
msros · F
Nothing is gunna change.
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Kwek00 · 41-45, M
@22Michelle Shhhhhht, that human beings aren't stable is way to complex.
sunsporter1649 · 70-79, M
@22Michelle There would be 65 other heavly armed staff to cancel her breathing permit
22Michelle · 61-69, T
@sunsporter1649 First where do you get the "65" figure from. Who's paying for all these guards, their wages, equipment, including guns, their training, the oversight of, etc, and lastly why do you think it will be "her" that goes postal?
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@justbob In a mass shooting event, do you really want teachers distracted by trying to shoot the shooter back or would you rather they focus on getting their children to safety???
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22Michelle · 61-69, T
@justbob Big "if".
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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
Crazy thought. What if we got rid of the guns?
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