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Magenta · F
Don't let the paranoia of others here, dissuade you.
Yourwildestdreams · 51-55, MNew
@Magenta Yup 👍 Paranoia will destroy ya!
LetsDance · 22-25, F
@Yourwildestdreams Nice rhyming
Yourwildestdreams · 51-55, MNew
@LetsDance Thank you 🙏
Don't get excited about any dudes here. They flirt like they get paid for it.
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@MarbleMarvel oh sorry, not for you. Wrong place
Magenta · F
@MarbleMarvel 😄 This.
icedsky · 51-55, M
@MarbleMarvel When is payday??
4meAndyou · F
Remember that the people of SW can be like a family, if you are lucky. Always comment on the posts of people whom you perceive to be kind, and avoid the sick looking stuff like the plague. The algorithm here will usually note your preferences and give you the people you like in your feed.

You can also go to the profile page of people you like, and click on favorites, and then you will see every one of their posts in your notifications column.

If someone is really awful, and you don't want to see them again, go to THEIR profile page and select the block option.
WindThruThePines · 46-50, FNew
@4meAndyou Very helpful, thank you! :)
4meAndyou · F
@WindThruThePines And ignore Deg. That's one of his standard jokes...🤣🤣🤣
Degbeme · 70-79, M
1) ignore koggg
2) Welcome!
3) Don't hesitate to look around and interact with people
@bijouxbroussard it seems to be some kind of inside joke among some others, but from the outside he just looks like an @$$. That's not an acceptable way to welcome outsiders, no matter how funny it may seem to some. 🤷
FreddieUK · 70-79, MNew
@NerdyPotato That's helpful. Only joined last week and wondered what that was all about.
@FreddieUK I don't quite understand it either. It just seems there's more to it than just being offensive. 🤷
Morvoren · F
Don’t take it seriously. Don’t post about things you are emotional about because people will mock you for it for a cheap laugh. Treat it like a cheap stand up comedy night.
@Morvoren Cheap stand up comedy is my whole personality 👀
icedsky · 51-55, M
For the love of god don't go to the image feed!
Dont pretend youre new when youre not
@V00doo This is exactly what I came here to say
WindThruThePines · 46-50, FNew
@V00doo 💋
@Ozymandiaz Copy cat
Ontheroad · M
Enjoy yourself... just post what you want, comment when you want, and most of all, be you.
angie8819 · 56-60, F
Don't take it too seriously
Yourwildestdreams · 51-55, MNew
@angie8819 Good advice 🙌🏻
Yourwildestdreams · 51-55, MNew
Run now, as fast as you can 😂

nobodyishome · 31-35, F
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
You’ve already got the green dot away so that’s great
Honestly just write whatever you would like
There’s not nearly as many posts as their used to be
And with the new algorithm a lot of posts fall through the cracks
Don’t get discouraged if you don’t get a lot of responses or anything
It’s a real hit or miss thing here, just keep posting and commenting and having fun

There’s a lot of great people here, you just have to sift through the mud to find them

Good luck!
WindThruThePines · 46-50, FNew
@JRVanguard thank you!
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@WindThruThePines I hope you enjoy your time on here
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
° Read the posts and reply to them first before posting.

It gets you familiar with the site and the users.

° Use the forums more than your feed.

There are lots of users you will never see in your feed, that feeds never show. That happens on everyone's feed.

° Add as many groups as you possibly can. And mute any groups or whole categories, if you're not interested in them or just can't stand the group subject.

This will help with blocking certain types of users. What you don't see in your feed, you don't have to block. You are limited to 500 user blocks. Many women unfortunately use up all their blocks quickly.

° For women mostly. Set your inbox request filter settings to:

"Users I haven't added as Friend"

This will prevent flooding of your inbox.

Don't forget to follow those you might possibly wish to hear from. They will get notified of your follow and can follow you back, then you're considered friends.

° Last, don't be afraid to moderate your own posts.

It's your post! No one else's post! Delete comments and replies more than block them. You are limited to 500 blocks.

Blocking should be used if they are a frequent problem.

Personally I have yet to block anyone after being here over eight years.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Try to chat with a lot of different people, you never know who might be a great friend! ☺👍
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@Pizzaguy213 I bet on that
solitaire · 41-45, F
Avoid getting emotionally attached to anyone on this site
Koggg · M
Kog dont care
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@Koggg me too kog. would be fun to watch from another home
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
@Koggg together
stay behind the tree and watch ,
in10RjFox · M
You would get nowhere with your first id. Your inbox would have been spammed right now. So create another I'd to connect with those who you like through pm. Don't make any posts from that.

Use this id for posts ..
LetsDance · 22-25, F
Don't expect people to be able to follow intelligent thinking of an important and helpful nature.
Jlhzfromep · M
enjoy, comment when you find post you like, post if you want…and be kind to others
Fullmetal · 46-50, M
Never take advise from a survivor, until you learn what they did to survive
Convivial · 26-30, F
Play in the questions... Find those who share your views and don't bite lol
masterofyou · 70-79, M
Have fun and enjoy your stay..... Be careful of the ones that want to fall in love with you....
Welcome to SW and wish you the Best
WindThruThePines · 46-50, FNew
@WindThruThePines Your welcome
TheShanachie · 61-69, M
Enjoy, set up controls on your messages.
you might wish you hadn't.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Don't take anything too seriously
Blondily · F
Just have fun!
iamBen · M
New to SW?

How about liberal use of muting and blocking without hesitation. There's always trolls, but try to ignore them.
plankter979 · 51-55, M
Don’t take anyone or anything too seriously. Everyone is seeking something they don’t have in real life.
LeviS · M
Keep your guard up but have fun! Don’t take things too seriously here and remember….

🤭😂
Gusman · 61-69, M
Do not respond at all to those making negative responses to your posts.
AdaXI · T
I don't have much advise really but I hope you enjoy your time on here.
乂º◡º乂
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
Good things come with time. Don't expect too much too soon.
HumanEarth · F
Always be nice and kind, even if they're being a Douche Canoe
Be naked, being whiskey. And maybe tacos.
TIstillwaitinggsc69 · 51-55, M
Here on the site or in life, little bables?
Stop pretending to be new
WindThruThePines · 46-50, FNew
@metaldog 💋
Try not to get blocked lol
Overlook the pervs
noexpectations1 · 41-45, M
Wash your hands...
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