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Who is taking care of your aging parents?

AbbeyRhode · F
My Dad is gone. I am full-time caregiver for my Mom.
Northerner · 70-79, M
@AbbeyRhode Good girl.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
My wife and I.
itsok · 31-35, F
I’ve said in the past that I wouldn’t, and here I am starting it. It seems impossible to know if I don’t help they won’t get the amount of help they need and still not do anything about it
Magenta · F
Both gone now. My mom took care of my Dad and us girls took care of my mom in the last days.
Fertilization · 36-40, F
My parents so my responsibility.
No way I could give up on them.
TessDun · 36-40, F
@Fertilization I feel you
I AM!
I took care of my father during covid and I will do the same for my Mother too.
i did until they passed...now i wonder who will take care of me 😟
BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F
I used to take care of my mother. No idea about my father and don't care much.
TessDun · 36-40, F
@BittersweetPotato Sorry to hear that
Ducky · 31-35, F
DavidT8899 · 22-25, M
@BittersweetPotato Let's me guess, you're Dad was a jerk?
NathanielS · 31-35, M
They can still manage on their own for now, but my dad is in his 70s. Me and my two sisters live fairly close to each other, and I have no doubt we will all take care of them when the time comes.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
its something we gotta think about
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
I'm taking care of my father. My mother passed away five years ago. I took care of her up until she passed.
Musicman · 61-69, M
Dad took care of my mom and I took care of my dad.
Fertilization · 36-40, F
@Musicman 💕💕💕Stay blessed.🙏
exexec · 61-69, C
My father died suddenly at home, 800 miles from here. My wife and I moved my mother and her sister to be near us so we could care for them until they died in their 90's.
TessDun · 36-40, F
@exexec My mom is 79 now and as the only unmarried child I feel obliged to take care of her. I’m not sure if it would feel different though if I had a partner. Was it easier for you?
exexec · 61-69, C
@TessDun Yes, my wife was a big help in caring for our super-elderly ladies. Sometimes, I had trouble talking to them, and she knew what to say.
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
My wife and I took care of my parents for a few years until they got so bad a nursing home was the only solution , we also helped care for her brother the last 7 years of his like as he died of cancer.
ABCDEF7 · M
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dancingtongue · 80-89, M
I would like to say I did, as the youngest sibling. Sort of traditional, I guess. My mother's youngest brother took care of her parents. My father's youngest brother took care of their mother. My wife's youngest brother took care of their parents. My youngest is keeping a close eye on me, and filling in when I need post-op caregiver, etc. But truth be told, although my wife and I took care of my mother, it was my wife who took the brunt of it.

But in penance, I took care of both her and my subsequent partner.
Raaii · 22-25, F
[c=800000] I do take care of m elders who I lived with
And I'm always worried but they're doing okay themselves these days [/c]
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
Mom been dead for over 30 years now, and dad been missing close almost 20 years now
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
Normally I just say that their both dead. Makes it easier then trying to explain something I don't have an answer to
My sister and I took care of our mother the last two years of her life. Our dad went suddenly.
InHeaven · F
Hell is taking care of my father ( died in 2018) and my mother, probably my brother and I
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
He can rot for all I care. She drank herself to death almost 2 years ago now.
Iwillwait · M
No one at this point, they're doing great. She the time comes it will be Us.
Nebula · 41-45, F
I helped take care of my Dad before he passed, me and my brother. My Mom is doing fine
Jessmari · 41-45
I do, but also working on getting some in home care to help out.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
The earth (as in the planet Earth) is taking care of my parents as they're both deceased. Dad about 2011/12 and mum in 2023. I do not know really anything about dad's passing except he was living and working in Istanbul at the time. Mum was in aged care. I have no idea if dad was religious, but mum sort of was.
Northerner · 70-79, M
We are now aging parents and it is a scary thought.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
My parents are self-sufficient for now. They both live pretty far away, and I don’t have great relationships with any of them. They’d have to move out here in order for me to be helpful, which I know they would not be excited about, but nor would living in a convalescent home be stellar
deadgerbil · 22-25
They're still good as 50's isn't old
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Both of mine are gone
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Mine are both gone.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
The aging parent is ME!
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
My dad was in his 80s and died suddenly but helped out for a few years before, my mother died of dementia had to finally put her in a facility tough part of aging parents
Ducky · 31-35, F
They’re still perfectly capable of taking care of themselves. I’m hoping it’ll still be a while yet before I have to worry about that.
TessDun · 36-40, F
@Ducky How old are they now if you don’t mind me asking?
Ducky · 31-35, F
@TessDun Late 50’s.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
smiler2012 · 56-60
@TessDun my dad died ten years ago this month and my mam has issues but is still quiet compus mentus but i am at home with her if she needs help
Fluffybull · F
My father died when he was in his 60s. My mother died when she was about 90; she'd been in a care home for several years.
They are still independent for now, but some adjustments are coming before long beyond the occasional visit to lend a hand.
walabby · 61-69, M
I AM the aging parent. Fortunately I am still healthy and have lots of kids to fight over me when the time comes.. :)
RenFur · 70-79, M
They've both left this life decades ago
My stepson tends to many of my needs
BigImo · 22-25, F
My parents are still in their early-40s so I think they can look after themselves
darkmere1983 · 46-50, M
my mum and dad are doing well for their age, they are elderly.
Poppies · 61-69, F
My brother lived close to them, so he did. They are gone now.
Mum's dead... "Dad" can go jump off a cliff for all I care...
Pretzel · 61-69, M
now?
they have been converted to ashes.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Satan? They're long gone.
IamBack · 31-35, M
I am, the one still alive at least ❤️‍🩹

 
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