Can sleeping with another woman be labeled “just sex”?

I would do the same as you if I was in that situation. Just because ‘it’s just sex’ doesn’t stop it being cheating. He has destroyed your trust. He’s done it once, he could do it again & you may not know.
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Thank you for replying.
This is a very complicated situation - we met on a social media platform. May I ask where are you from just to protect my privacy?

I dated a woman years ago that acted and felt the same way. When she finally told me, I said good-bye. I could not or would not ever accept that from my partner.

Unless it was something you had discussed before and agreed to, I don't think so. I mean its not exactly cheating if he's told you. But then, it also tells you how he values your relationship, if it would be "just sex" to him. I sense that he's just ended your relationship.

So the final decision was. It didn’t take much time to convince him she is more accessible. So, the “Just Sex” won and I am relieved to say the least. In case anyone wants to know.

I would label it as: Made in USA; Dry clean only. And if it's less than 100 or so, I would not worry about it.

Seems he is quite a shallow guy, or your relationship with him is completely opposite in the understanding and expectations. If you are not happy, move on. Life is too short to not be happy.

It can be just sex. But that doesn't mean you have to accept that behavior in your relationship. There's any number of "it's just" scenarios that can both be true and be dealbreakers. "I'm moving, but it's just 500 miles". Some people will accept that. Some people won't. In this case, it sounds like you won't and you should take whatever actions are required for your own sanity and happiness.

YES. Just Sex is ONS .. NO RELATIONSHIP. Which is Mutual Masturbation.

Unless you have a signed Exclusive contract, you have no right over him. He may apologise and choose you just for the time being, and repeat it once he finds another JUST SEX partner. But next time he would be more careful to indulge without your knowledge.

It sounds like he already made his choice. Now it's up to you how you deal with it.

Well it seems he doesn't consider you as more than just a sex partner. Have you guys discussed monogamy? Maybe he's under the impression you guys aren't as serious as you think you are.

Nope, he’s not the one who gets to choose what happens in my life. I do.

Sorry thats not right, 100% or not at all

I would suggest telling him to leave rather than to choose.

If he was a male prostitute "it's just sex" could work as an excuse yes.

But in every other instance its really an excuse for " hey this is how i live my life, get used to it, coz i aint gonna change for anyone" he's looking out for #1.

He already made his choice without thinking about you, now you need to choose to accept it. cut your losses before he wastes more of your time.

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If a woman did that to me she wouldn't get to choose, she'd be dumped on the spot.

Another woman. And another. And another. And another. And another.

That’s great!! There’s no such thing as “Just Sex”!!!

Say he chooses you this time. What about the next time?

Having sex isn't like having a drink of water. If it is sex outside a relationship, it's a betrayal.

and what was his choice ?

Nope, YOU get to choose. What do you want?

Worst excuse to use for cheating. It seems like they are trying to justify their actions for sleeping with another woman which is a violation of any relationship.

It doesn't matter if it's "just sex", it's still cheating.

Yes can be labeled just sex however it is still sex with someone else.

Think he just likes collecting sex partners.