Can sleeping with another woman be labeled “just sex”?

I’m trying to understand. I have a relationship with a man. He met another who danced with him and told him she has been fantasizing about having sex with him. So he agreed and then told me it’s just sex! I’m not accepting that. I asked him to choose.

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in10RjFox · MVIP

YES. Just Sex is ONS .. NO RELATIONSHIP. Which is Mutual Masturbation.

Unless you have a signed Exclusive contract, you have no right over him. He may apologise and choose you just for the time being, and repeat it once he finds another JUST SEX partner. But next time he would be more careful to indulge without your knowledge.

Lions · 61-69, F

@in10RjFox very true and unsettling

in10RjFox · MVIP

@Lions honestly .. for your age, you should let go your traditional mindset and relate with as many, instead of expecting exclusivity the traditional way. Why Cage someone and why get caged in the process! Is this worry required at this age?

Lions · 61-69, F

@in10RjFox yup. STD matter at any age and it’s not my style but it is the style of other women, he is welcome to let go of me and go with his type.

in10RjFox · MVIP

@Lions STD! in this era of condoms and medical advancements ? Hope you know it's earlier to demand a blood test to rule out AIDS/STD.

Lions · 61-69, F

@in10RjFox this life style does not suit me.

in10RjFox · MVIP

@Lions either you are a player.. or you retire..

Lions · 61-69, F

@in10RjFox that’s a good one. I am retiring with a trophy my dear friend - I’m not a cheap meat. I’m prim ribs ( that’s a good one 😊)

in10RjFox · MVIP

@Lions any plans to enter the Hall of Fame ?

Lions · 61-69, F

@in10RjFox big huge plans - the woman who refused to be next to Just Sex.