Can sleeping with another woman be labeled “just sex”?

I’m trying to understand. I have a relationship with a man. He met another who danced with him and told him she has been fantasizing about having sex with him. So he agreed and then told me it’s just sex! I’m not accepting that. I asked him to choose.

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nowic2 · 61-69, M

I would do the same as you if I was in that situation. Just because ‘it’s just sex’ doesn’t stop it being cheating. He has destroyed your trust. He’s done it once, he could do it again & you may not know.
Be strong!
All the best 🙂

Lions · 61-69, F

@nowic2 he had done it in the past.

nowic2 · 61-69, M

@Lions oh no. Clearly he has no respect for you. Sounds like you’re just a placeholder