Can sleeping with another woman be labeled “just sex”?

I’m trying to understand. I have a relationship with a man. He met another who danced with him and told him she has been fantasizing about having sex with him. So he agreed and then told me it’s just sex! I’m not accepting that. I asked him to choose.

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Rudboy41 · 41-45, M

If he was a male prostitute "it's just sex" could work as an excuse yes.

But in every other instance its really an excuse for " hey this is how i live my life, get used to it, coz i aint gonna change for anyone" he's looking out for #1.

He already made his choice without thinking about you, now you need to choose to accept it. cut your losses before he wastes more of your time.