Can sleeping with another woman be labeled “just sex”?

I’m trying to understand. I have a relationship with a man. He met another who danced with him and told him she has been fantasizing about having sex with him. So he agreed and then told me it’s just sex! I’m not accepting that. I asked him to choose.

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IM5688 · 70-79, M

I dated a woman years ago that acted and felt the same way. When she finally told me, I said good-bye. I could not or would not ever accept that from my partner.

Lions · 61-69, F

@IM5688 thank you

Lions · 61-69, F

I’m almost to the decision to walk

IM5688 · 70-79, M

@Lions No almost about it. DO IT! He is showing you outright that he cares little for you and that you will never be able to trust him. Don't become another notch on his belt. Don't let yourself be hurt over and over again every time he "just has sex" with other women.

PatKirby · M

@Lions

Cheating is the word here. Leave. It only goes downward from here.

You don't owe anyone anything but your own self respect and dignity.

Lions · 61-69, F

@PatKirby very true.