Can sleeping with another woman be labeled “just sex”?

I’m trying to understand. I have a relationship with a man. He met another who danced with him and told him she has been fantasizing about having sex with him. So he agreed and then told me it’s just sex! I’m not accepting that. I asked him to choose.

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StarLily · 51-55, F

Nope, YOU get to choose. What do you want?

Lions · 61-69, F

@StarLily you got me there.
I just lost a dear friend who decided to pull the plug after a misunderstanding and 14 years of friendship. I feel that I don’t have someone close if I let go. But, I am at an age that being alone is okay. Me and my paintings

StarLily · 51-55, F

@Lions Wouldn't it be amazing to have someone that would cherish the love you give to them and value you? I would leave space open for someone like that, and not have it occupied by someone who's not valuing you.

Painting is a wonderful passion to have. It's okay to be alone at any age - it can be very rewarding.

Lions · 61-69, F

@StarLily you are right and that’s why I let him go. I persuaded him that she is a better choice since she is available

StarLily · 51-55, F

@Lions I believe you made the best choice for yourself! Sorry you had to have this experience though.

Time to paint now. What painting medium do you prefer?

Lions · 61-69, F

@StarLily watercolor