Can sleeping with another woman be labeled “just sex”?

@Teslin yes they can, if its been discussed with their partner and agreement achieved - not unilaterally, or cheating behind their partner's back....

@VeronicaJane I 100% agree. It is something both parties need to agree on BEFORE going into a relationship.

@Teslin I agree that it's best to do so at start, but sometimes people's inclination might change later. The important part is to discuss with their partner and agreement achieved - BEFORE stepping out.

@VeronicaJane 100%

@Teslin I felt betrayed. To be together and the next day it happens. And I think part of it was my fault. I thought that I can handle it but it didn’t go well with me to be that close to our time together. I felt as if I was not enough.

@Lions TBH with you I am a 1 woman man. It would be extremely difficult for me to change.
Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against anyone who can, just not my thing.

@Teslin his wife passes away a few weeks ago after 9 months of battling a bad cancer.
I felt I will be selfish if I told him what to do with his life.
Now I lost trust and respect kind of. I can’t risk getting any std at my age or any age. His other partner has a boyfriend and I don’t know who else she sleeps with or he sleeps with. So I am off limits for now, like I said I lost trust in him as well.

@Lions Smart !! No STD's wanted. That's another great reason.

@Teslin I am very protective of my health and he knows that. I truly don’t need the stress or diseases.

@Lions Absolutely. There POF in the sea. You will find the right one.