Oh to admire someone amid my chaotic lifeLast night I had a chance to bond with this man I've known for a year now. I'm quite close to his cousins and I've decided to join them and hangout. This is not our first to bond together. We use his car and drive quite far. For awhile, I forgot... See More »
I just want to finish JuneMy last Day at work will be on July 1. I resigned from work just after 2 months. I should've trust my guts when I saw the red flag on their hiring process (calling me several times for 4 months, then ghosting me, and call me again). My first week... See More »
Life's been weird latelyI saw people who hurt me getting engaged and people I used I left are now successful. I'm working in a most successful company, but marginalized and bullied by my workmates. I'm now rendering, and everyday feels like hell. I want to stop playing... See More »
I don't know it if should report this or notI don't know if I'm getting bullied or if I should report it. I am rendering for work because I always feel bad and negative and the work is really heavy. All this time, I blame myself for these negative feelings. Then yesterday while working from... See More »
Do you think disappearing is a good idea?What I mean is being inactive in all internet stuff. But I am wondering what to do during those time? I am rendering at work and brokeup woth my short time bf. I feel kinda lost and I want to take time. I feel like I want to go somewhere far away,... See More »
It's my first time to feel marginalized at workI'm always that timid introverted girl, but I never felt or experienced this before. I think it started when one of my colleagues didn't like my output. Take note, I'm the only new employee in our team and they've been all friends for 2 to 5 years.... See More »
I prayed for this job but now I'm quittingI feel bad for getting this role and then quit. Tbh, I prayed for this job before, but I stopped since the HR was confusing me for months, until I was finally hired. But then, one week after I was hired, I was given a huge task that everyone hates.... See More »
Leaving became too familiar. I don't know how to fix this issueWhether its is relationships, work, or group, when slight or big problems arise, my first response is to leave. I don't know if it's because of my childhood. When I was a kid, my family and I used to changed address time to time because of my... See More »
I think I'm in the wrong company. Should I continue or quit?I applied last November 2025 to this company but just started in the middle of April 2026. The process is very stressful since they'll text me that they will give job offer then ghost me, and it happened 3x until I finally onboard. 2 weeks after I... See More »
It's been 3 days since I was fully terminatedI walked away from my full-time job for about 2 months now since I'm having health issues and I only depend on my part time job for 2 years. Then the HR PMed me with a termination letter out of the blue. I asked them a bit, but didn't give me clear... See More »
Should I give this guy a chance?I am casually friendly and thoughtful to everyone. Then there was this guy I met on Facebook and chat me. I don't want to sugar coat, so I sent him my real photo without any filter. He told me "you look 30 (old) and stressed". I was shock because he... See More »
Open letterDear mom, I know you are trying to cheer me up and even offer to do my hair because you know I'm not feeling good emotionally. I am much aware that you are trying to see the silver lining in my single, jobless, 30-year-old life, and you are calling... See More »
What to doThere was this guy who's in his late 30's (he's 8-10 years older than me) that my father wanted me to date. That guy's fatheralso wanted me to date his son. The problem is we are both introvert and we almost never talk to each other. I'm kind bubbly... See More »
He smells so goodI know when he already arrived at the office or not. I can smell him from a far, and he smells so freaking clean and good. His working station is very tidy and pleasant. How could I not like him?
I think the only thing I hate on being single is trying to solve everything on my own. I don't have anyone to vent with