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There was this guy who's in his late 30's (he's 8-10 years older than me) that my father wanted me to date. That guy's fatheralso wanted me to date his son. The problem is we are both introvert and we almost never talk to each other. I'm kind bubbly even if I'm introvert and he's shy but very helpful person (like picks up trash, fix chairs, etc.).

He used say at least "hi" to me. But because he's really handsome, I tend to get shy as well. Now, I'm slowly having friends within my age bracket. And I've noticed he's trying to avoid me.

Earlier this morning, I'm trying to get a coffee for myself, he saw me and rushed to get out somewhere. It made me feel so bad. I don't have feelings for him, Im guessing. But, I feel like he's showing me he's not really into me. And I get a bit pressured because of our parents.
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FreddieUK · 70-79, M
Parents should take the advice I was given many years ago when trying to navigate other people's romances: 'Never get involved in affairs of the heart.'
@FreddieUK Sadly, that’s how it’s done in some cultures. My paternal grandparents’ marriage was arranged.
Boeing · 36-40
Ask your father to help you arrange a date with him where you will be only the two of you, go for a walk and spend some time together and ask him if he'd be interested to get to know each other, or if he has no interest...:)
thisguy20 · 41-45, M
If he is trying to avoid you like that, the odds are he has a crush on you.
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Try to get him to sit down with you over hot cocoa and pie and let him know how you feel about him.

 
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