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There was this guy who's in his late 30's (he's 8-10 years older than me) that my father wanted me to date. That guy's fatheralso wanted me to date his son. The problem is we are both introvert and we almost never talk to each other. I'm kind bubbly even if I'm introvert and he's shy but very helpful person (like picks up trash, fix chairs, etc.).

He used say at least "hi" to me. But because he's really handsome, I tend to get shy as well. Now, I'm slowly having friends within my age bracket. And I've noticed he's trying to avoid me.

Earlier this morning, I'm trying to get a coffee for myself, he saw me and rushed to get out somewhere. It made me feel so bad. I don't have feelings for him, Im guessing. But, I feel like he's showing me he's not really into me. And I get a bit pressured because of our parents.
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OluwoleFemiJacob · 26-30, M
I will just give a view of my own reasoning from what you said
Think this is a bit complicated
First I will say you should try to look through the relationship between dad and this guy's dad
Parents we always tend to want what's the best for our kids
One thing I know for sure is the guy trying to meet up with helping you with doing stuffs
Shows how much he's interested in you
Guess what you don't know guys we can go any length to do anything to get a woman's heart
And for his dad to speak to your dad about this too
I think it's nice
Sometimes it's always tough to give advices because you are not in the position and you don't see things the way the person sees it
So you are just gonna advice base on what you are told
Does he have a good job or do you see potentials in him
Can you two be able to work together
Build a good financial life together trust me I always overemphasized how important that is
Finances are very important
Americans are paying to live on earth which was suppose to be free but If you wanna be happy
Take your finances seriously in your relationship
If you can gain your dad's trust and get him to tell you about what he thinks he's the best for you