What's an informal term to describe a female which isn't regarded as condescending/sexist?

@SW-User Don't anticipate men, who are called men, to understand this

@NiftyWhite yeah I meant colloquial. Stumped me

@Jm31xxx well when you have a stag and doe she’s compared to a female deer but she isn’t really called a doe any other time. you’re right, every slang term is derogatory.

@DarkHeaven Otherwise it’s better to use my name.

@SW-User I’m a crazy bish. 🖤 And you’re mine not the other way around. *giggles*

@DarkHeaven Okay...😏

@SW-User Mwah 💋

@Salix75 Still as a title, it’s pretty polite if being used incorrectly.

@DarkHeaven agreed. I'd much rather it be used than about 99% of the other terms men (or should I call them males? boys? lol!) use for women :D


funny incident I once had at a work cafeteria some years ago - myself and a co-worker (a man) were both going to grab a muffin. He pulled his hand back and said "Ladies first". I replied with a chuckle "Ohhh I'm no lady", and his response was "A gentleman always presumes [that a woman is a lady]".

I thought this was such a PERFECT awesome response!! :D

@Salix75 Well said. Polite & cute.

@EugenieLaBorgia "pontificating, bombastic women". Your turn of phrase there made me laugh. But I could never use any of those words you like

@Jm31xxx We have our names for women in France, too: Nana, Copine, Gonzesse, Meuf,Loulotte and many more!!

@DarkHeaven we are friends 😘 we needn't worry about such things

@Miram I love you sweetie.
🖤🤗😘💋

@Jm31xxx See. Familiarity. ✌️

@DarkHeaven ya ok troll. BLOCKED.

@NiftyWhite Fuck off dumbfuck.

@NiftyWhite You don’t get to tell other people what they think. That doesn’t make me a troll you stupid bitch.

@Belladonna Fair point. Gender doesn’t need to enter in unless we are trying to hook up.

@NiftyWhite It’s the familiarity.

@Underconstruction This ⬆

@Underconstruction might not know it though. Also, even if I do, that might be a bit too familiar

@Jm31xxx You ask. Or say Miss or Mam.

@rckt148 Also tone matters a lot. You can tell when it’s said insincere or not. Dear is awfully familiar term to use on someone you’re not familiar with but culture does make a difference quite a bit.

@DarkHeaven Yes Mam , as I said I have a souther accent ,raised a gentlemen
and I have no clue what it is ,they say its my spirit ,
but back men ,who have a hard look ,they see me they nod or they speak
always ,and most people have asked me "did you know him "? no never seen him before in my life .
he was acting all hard to everyone else and you walk up and he speaks to you
what gives ? I have no clue ,its been that way my whole life

Ladies know I mean them no disrespect
Black men and woman know I am not prejudice
and punks know I am not the one to play with

I have no clue what it is ,but I am thankful it works that way

@rckt148 If it works it works and I would bet if a lady took offense you would drop the word and never use it to her again as you sound like a true southern gentleman. ✌️

@Salix75 😂

@DonaldTrumpet if only DT's suits fit that well and had the shirt cuffs where they're supposed to be

@Salix75 KinGz of StyLEz

@Trevo but still inappropriate. A grown woman is a woman.. not a girl. it infantalizes her and reduces her status to that of a child. same as when call women "baby / babe"