What's an informal term to describe a female which isn't regarded as condescending/sexist?

@SW-User well that's a little formal though

@Jm31xxx their name always works

@Jm31xxx i think you mean a “colloquial” term. like a slang term like dude or buddy but for a lady... i’m trying to think of one but i can’t.

@SW-User Don't anticipate men, who are called men, to understand this

@NiftyWhite yeah I meant colloquial. Stumped me

@Jm31xxx well when you have a stag and doe she’s compared to a female deer but she isn’t really called a doe any other time. you’re right, every slang term is derogatory.