What are your answers?

@Sapio Good list!

@LadyBronte thank you.

@LadyBronte Thank you. 💖

@Magenta Yes, the loud/obnoxious attention getters. I hate the loud

@Tumbleweed Same!

@OlderSometimesWiser Yes!

@LadyBronte

I know, I was just giving him a hard time.

@calicuz ☺

@calicuz Well i have lumped 3 into 1 because they are all closely related.. Oh and if thats a hard time i think your hard times are really soft.. 😊

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Or worse yet, if he cannot.

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Laughs. Good list, for sure!

@SW-User Nice!

@AnneCute Yeah, I get all that.

@dominateofyou Thanks!

@Adogslife Curious. Physical frugality or financial?

@LadyBronte Both are bad, but I was referencing financial. I absolutely hate when successful men are cheap and are equally so with their wives. Being smart with your money is one thing, being miserly isn’t.

If you love her, she’s meant to be spoiled.

@Adogslife Very nice!

@Coldplay I would agree.

@pripyatamusementpark Nice list.

@SethGreene531 I agree!

@Cheesecake Yep.

@Rolexeo I can't stand anyone who picks on the weak.

@Justmeraeagain Nice list, Rae.

@Tumbleweed Great list!

@LadyBronte Thank you :)

@PatKirby Laughs. Ok. I get it.
I've met a few nurses who would fit that bill perfectly, but the majority of them I know, don't. I'd like to think I don't either, but... ? 🫠 😄

@LadyBronte

Every one I ever dated was like this and demanding and pushy. Every.single.one.

@PatKirby I became a nurse later in life. Perhaps, thanks to that, I was able to avoid the entitlement syndrome. 😄

@LadyBronte I really liked the qualities you listed, it seemed perfect, so I just wrote the same thing as you. now that I think about it some more I must say that since compassion can sort of overlap with kindness I would keep kindness and add intelligence. it surely doesn't make someone a saint but I do appreciate smart people, I am lucky to be surrounded by really smart people. after 50 years on this planet I have collected some exceptionally smart friends and acquaintances.

@reflectingmonkey I agree, but I think I would break my own rules and just add a 4th. Intelligence is a must.

@LadyBronte well, its because for sure the values you noted are fundamental and I wouldn't let anyone close to me who don't share these values but when I think of what makes me want to befriend someone or not, intelligence is definitely a criteria.

@Tulipbaby73 Agree with them all!

@uncalled4 I have a real problem with Narcissism.

@Donotfolowme Nice. I hope he is all those good things and more.

@tenente Eh, choose as many as you wish. Three is often not enough. Nice list though.

@NativePortlander1970 Thanks.