Real men answer me ( those who know they’re real men others plz excuse)

Always dream. We need dreams.

You created your circumstances in your head. Successful people have a vision of life. They attack it, then jump in and enjoy the rewards.

If you don’t like your environment, change it. Life isn’t a lottery full of losing tickets. Successs is easy because most people quit on themselves. They quit on their goals. They quit on learning from others. They learn to quit and blame. That’s just a recipe for a downhill spiral.

Set goals and don’t let anyone get in the way, ever.

I am who I want to be and my life is how I want it to be!!! I have worked very hard to get here...

No. A real man accepts and lives up to his responsibilities...All of them..😷

Not at all. It’s the refusal to quit, the determination to push through challenges that makes you a good person, more so than the end result in some circumstances.

I read your post three times, but I’m still not sure about what exactly you are asking! 🫤

You are not being clear. Can you rephrase your original post?

Do you mean that striving to be what you want despite obstacles in the way would make you a bad person? It wouldd epend on what is it you are striving for.

Our own hearts determine if we are a failure to ourselves, society determines whether we are seen as a failure or not, but the real determination is whether or not we hear "well done good and faithful servant" at the end

Very few of us are who we want to be and where we want to be, but these things pass away

That's life though. Nobodies where they thought they'd be years ago. If you're trying you're doing great. Everyone's life is complicated, when we look at people where we want to be we just see the result and not the process.

Never give up your dreams and aspirations if you do give them up you will just exist. Keep striving, you will never get everything you want, but, you will accomplish a good portion of them.

I think it defined you as mature.

That's how everyone is treated by the rest of society - you're never 'good enough'.

I am exactly going through this in Life. I keep looking for newer avenues to emerge and only getting stronger and it would be a blast when I emerge for I have so much stuff accumulated all through my life. Others think I am a failure, but I never wanted to succeed as I am a pioneer heading towards setting a precedence.

It's the world that's hell bent on success.

So did a real man answer your question

Ah hope u find it.

If you get what you want, you find new goals. Otherwise happiness fades to contentment and contentment fades to boredom.

Always something to do, always something to learn.

The fact that i haven't reached certain goals yet just means i have to keep working on them.

A man is someone who has put away foolish things, according to the bible.

No mannequins allowed !