Real men answer me ( those who know they’re real men others plz excuse)

You know what you want in life but due to circumstances you’re not what you want but still you make way to be the one you want , you think that makes you a bad person or a failure ?

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sree251 · 41-45, M

You are not being clear. Can you rephrase your original post?

Do you mean that striving to be what you want despite obstacles in the way would make you a bad person? It wouldd epend on what is it you are striving for.

Mindfuladventurer · 36-40, M

@sree251 yes I do agree but , if you want to be someone you have to be selfish only about yourself which makes the person bad ?

sree251 · 41-45, M

@Mindfuladventurer Why would wanting to realize what you want to be makes you bad?

Ten years ago, I quit my job and ended all personal relationships to seek meaning in life. In that regard, I was selfish. Do you think that was bad?

Mindfuladventurer · 36-40, M

@sree251 that’s the question is it bad ?

sree251 · 41-45, M

@Mindfuladventurer No way. My life is about living it without inner unhappiness. How can that be bad?

You seem to have some doubts about your own situation. Why don't you say what's bothering you? Is you are a real man, you would speak up instead of hiding it.

Really · 80-89, M

@Mindfuladventurer It is what it is.