Real men answer me ( those who know they’re real men others plz excuse)

You know what you want in life but due to circumstances you’re not what you want but still you make way to be the one you want , you think that makes you a bad person or a failure ?

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ViciDraco · 41-45, M

If you get what you want, you find new goals. Otherwise happiness fades to contentment and contentment fades to boredom.

Always something to do, always something to learn.

The fact that i haven't reached certain goals yet just means i have to keep working on them.

Really · 80-89, M

@ViciDraco You may eventually discover that it's not necessary to seek 'Always something to do, always something to learn'. Meantime, enjoy your determination.

ViciDraco · 41-45, M

@Really Don't get me wrong, sometimes the something to do is to relax. I'm not by any means an ambitious workaholic. Something to do doesn't have to be productive. Though I would counter that there is always something to learn. I can't imagine no longer learning anything.

The main thrust was that life doesn't have a finish line, so wherever you set your goals is arbitrary to begin with. Which in turn makes success or failure in life arbitrary as well.

Really · 80-89, M

@ViciDraco

life doesn't have a finish line

I guess you're a lot younger than I am. I can almost see it.