When is a good time for a girl to tell her guy all of her secrets? We've spent a few nights...

It sounds like this relationship is still in the early stages. If you need to confide in someone I'd not necessarily start with someone who, if the relationship falls apart, would have some pretty powerful ways to hurt you.

Of course a relationship si about sharing trust with one another but a part of that is just like, trusting him to treat you well, be loyal and honest, and so forth. If you have stories to tell which you literally call "your secrets" I'd just as a rule keep 'em secret unless it was extremely important you tell him because his not knowing would compromise the relationship.

4meAndyou · F

Don't let it get one minute further. He would want to KNOW all your secrets before he introduces you to his parents, and he will drop you like a hot potato if he feels you've lied to him.

ABCDEF7 · M

A simple thing. Don't get too involved in your love and emotions that you see things only from your glasses(with the love & emotions) you have for him. Try to read his mind and emotions. A true lover only wants your happiness.

If you don't think you are emotionally bonded. then where is the question of sharing secrets?

Northwest · M

Committed couple should not have secrets, but you don't open up to someone you just met, even if you stop at his parents for a weekend.

Trust is something that evolves, though some things (and that depends on the situation), some things must be divulged upfront.

exexec · 70-79, C

We dated almost 8 years, and she didn't start telling me her secrets until we had been married about 5 years. I still don't know all of her secrets after 40 years of marriage.