When is a good time for a girl to tell her guy all of her secrets?

We've spent a few nights together and he kepp coming back like a panting dog but I don't think we've emotionally bonded yet but he's making overtures towards me going to stop at his parents for a weekend.

How can I know if I can trust him with my secrets?

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CountScrofula · 41-45, M

It sounds like this relationship is still in the early stages. If you need to confide in someone I'd not necessarily start with someone who, if the relationship falls apart, would have some pretty powerful ways to hurt you.

Of course a relationship si about sharing trust with one another but a part of that is just like, trusting him to treat you well, be loyal and honest, and so forth. If you have stories to tell which you literally call "your secrets" I'd just as a rule keep 'em secret unless it was extremely important you tell him because his not knowing would compromise the relationship.