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Do you care about how people think of you?

Poll - Total Votes: 55
Absolutely
Hell nah
Lil bit
They're not my mama.
It is what it is
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It is what it is.
SW-User
I like to be liked..and I don’t believe anyone who says they don’t
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Nevaeh0081 um ok
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@pdockal sorry. I thought you were talking to me. My mistake. I must be tired.
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Nevaeh0081 its a public post so your welcome to comment
Ducky · 31-35, F
Generally, not really. But the people that matter to me, I care what they think very much. But those are very few.
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
people like to say that they don't care what other people think but the truth is that everyone cares what people think, with the exception of a few mentally ill people.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@reflectingmonkey You got me thinking, brah🤔
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
I prefer people to like me of course but my happiness and self worth isn't based on it.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@JimboSaturn Well said. 👏👏👏
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Too dead inside to feel that shit.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Beatbox34 I feel you
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Those that I care about certainly.
In general I want people to have a positive view of me, but if they don't I'm not going to flip out over it. Realistically you aren't going to please everyone.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@ravenwind43 Well put
Morrigan · F
I think it entirely depends on the situation and the people. I used to question why someone didn't like me, as I was nice to them etc etc. But that is a ridiculous standard to hold anyone to given I come across many people for whatever reason I dont much care for. We cant think everyone is something positive just not possible, or realistic. So now it is only about those people important to me, because I would hate to think someone I cared about had some kind of issue with me.
AndysAttic · 56-60, M
Only the ones who care what I think about them.
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, FVIP
It depends what they think about me. I try very hard to be considerate, polite and to accept other peoples right to form their options even if I don't agree with them. I'd hope I come across as being a reasonable person, it would make me question myself if anyone thought I wasn't.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I care about what the people I care about think of me.
That doesn't mean I compromise myself and I don't care what strangers think of me at all.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
Nope. When I was younger I did. Nowadays, Idc what anyone thinks of me.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@Nevaeh0081 I realized that you can't please everybody and the harder you try, the more miserable you become and the more you'll make people hate you. So if someone hates me, Idc.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@IWasCallingYaLarry Seems like it's the only way to roll.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@Nevaeh0081 yeah so I don't waste my time trying to make anybody happy.
I do my best not to be an approval seeker. You have to accept me warts and all.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@BlueSkyKing well said
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
How would I know? I am almost non existent as it should be this way.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@FreestyleArt Nmh 😏 Out of sight and out of mind.
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Nope sure don't. Love me or hate me...still going to keep on living 🙄
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@LilPrincess bad@$$
Bluebirdsonmyshoulder · 46-50, F
I used to, but I work on that daily and it gets better each day
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Bluebirdsonmyshoulder that's good. 👏👏👏
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Depends on how my lawyer is doing.
ravenhill · 46-50, M
simply no, i don't.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@ravenhill simple but true.
SW-User
Only if I care about them
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes, it matters a lot.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Only certain people.
Lumberjack70 · 56-60, M
Only my family
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
[b][c=000000]Shrugs[/c][/b]
pdockal · 56-60, M
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
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SW-User
I would like to say no .. but honestly I do
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@SW-User I get that.

I guess it's not what/how they think of me. I could really care less.

It's the why of it. Why does that person think of me so badly? Is it warranted?

It hurts more when they matter to you.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
No to [b]infinity [/b]
Sagittarians don't give a crap.
We roll how we want to roll. ☺️
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Zonuss 👍👌💪😏
Only one person, even that's too many.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@Nihiless there are too many
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
Not even a little bit hahaha!
LordShadowfire · 46-50
I like to think I don't, but I do. And I think most people who proudly proclaim that they don't care, do care.
Nevaeh0081 · 36-40, F
@LordShadowfire I get what you're saying.

 
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