I have golden retriever energyIdk if the women I've dated in the past were expecting this aloof pretty boy with no personality. Well I'm going to keep trying till I meet my fellow retriever who matches my energy😂
What do you think about ghostingI matched with this woman on Hinge, everything seemed great. Then as soon as we took it off the app her responses became slow and dull. We had one date. And then she started taking longer and longer to reply (days) we did talk on the phone since the...See More »
Noticed my apartment turning into a depression nestJust cleaned half of it. Yes life isn't perfect but I'm not going to let it get me down
In other news, my company posted something that they were looking for people to attend a career fair for themAll I could think of was offering to go, and then using that opportunity to talk to other people in other booths to find a new job🤣🤣
Still haven't gotten an official offer yet. Seems like that job might've slipped through my handsI'm being hopeful but just also moving on and applying to new jobs. Jobseeking is hard.
What are some affordable online therapy optionsEveryone seems to shit on betterhelp. Most of the others I've seen are like $100/session which I don't think I can afford. I have insurance through my employer but don't want to use it, it's also a high deductible plan (basically the cheapest thing...See More »
Feel like melting into a holeI'm going to be so defeated if this all falls apart. I got offered the job. Today I get an email from them saying they need to see my PhD acceptance letter before they can officially give me the job. Because it's a one-year position expected to end...See More »
I cannot date multiple people at onceIf that means I won't find a relationship, so be it. I can't. I have quite a large number of matches on my dating app of choice, Hinge, and talking to them all feels exhausting. I set a date with the one I actually liked talking to, and we really hit...See More »
How long after verbal offer do I wait for an official offerVerbally offered the job on Monday after two rounds of interviews. I got the interviews through a referral, and so the head of the department I'll be working in said to submit a "formal application" through a link to a job posting he just created,...See More »
Ever been in an abusive relationship before?While you're in it, you don't even realize that's what it is. I'm thinking back a long way now. All the "that's not what I said, that's what you heard". Making me think I'm crazy.
Just took my car in for service and I can't even be mad😂$1800 bill for 80,000 mile service that I wasn't expecting. I had just paid off my credit card too🥲
I really need to stop telling people my businessWhen I do, they seem to take it as an invitation to tell me what to do
Working 14 hours todayAt this point I absolutely cannot wait till I get my official offer for my new job. This current one was a bait and switch and I feel no remorse for quitting after barely 3 months here. Frankly speaking, I am worth far more than this. On the plus...See More »
As an African, I was glad to see my culture come to the big screen with The Woman KingHowever, quite a few things felt pretty off (not just because my people were the bad guys in this movie😂). That was all confirmed when I saw who wrote the story and screenplay. Oh well. Still a good movie though, it could've been better.
We always ask how people could see dictators rise to power and do nothing about it Well, here it is. There was a time early on, when Trump first burst onto the scene that some people were willing to overlook some of his antics, as he was speaking about real issues and giving people who had lost their voice a say. Unfortunately,...See More »
Just got a job offer!!!! Wooohooooo!!!!Still not an official offer because some paperwork has to be completed. But still an offer!!! Now's the time to decide whether to quit my current job now or to wait till I get the official offer. Lol.
Owning my past mistakesAt some point last year, I went along with things that I didn't believe/wasn't interested in just to be accepted. The same people whose acceptance I craved still rejected me. I have been deconstructing and getting rid of all the fakeness, but still...See More »
Felt tired. Got up and turned off the lights and put on my fan to be more comfortable. Now I can't sleepWhy does this happen😩 I want to go to bed early tonight so I can wake up early to study before work
Do you meal prep?Finished cooking for the week. I made enough food to last me for two weeks and stuck the ones I won't be eating anytime soon in the freezer. Fresh food is obviously the best but not everyone has time for that and I definitely don't want to keep...See More »