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No there's a race in being the best degenerate tho
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@Nanori I love it!
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
A true gentleman is considerate of everyone around him, not just women, and places their wellbeing above his own. Very important quality.
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@SunshineGirl absolutely
Magenta · F
Yes indeed.
But what about being a 'lady'?
But what about being a 'lady'?
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@Magenta It is even more important to treat a woman like a lady if she isnt..😷
HumanEarth · F
Sure, but dying out when all men is comments like coming from women in person and social media
The smartest thing a woman can ever learn, is to never need a man.
The smartest thing a woman can ever learn, is to never need a man.
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Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@HumanEarth sure and thank you 😊 I'm late I know
HumanEarth · F
Don't worry about it @Metalbarbie. Just saying thank you was well worth sharing it
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
@HumanEarth This is true. Men and women did evolve to be together but now they're drifting apart. The only force that could so easily drive them apart would seem to be the same one that put them together. You say what you do because your big human brain tells you it's the truth. An animal couldn't even contemplate something like that. And, what you say is true. Who the hell wants to be absorbed into a couple? to be dependent on someone else or erased by such an arrangement? Of course, then, we can't reproduce ourselves. But, if we can develope at least an artificial womb, then machines can handle the task. This artificiality could actually be a natural outgrowth. Birds build nests from twigs. Humans by their nature could build artificial wombs and genetic alterations. What
people see as artificial may be simply a more sophisticated version of the same behavior.
people see as artificial may be simply a more sophisticated version of the same behavior.
I think there are ways to be a gentleman reasonably.
I don't want my chair pulled out. But opening a door for me ugh it just melts my heart when someone is aware of being kind. And if he opens it for the elderly person behind us, even better.
Fuck society. I want a genuine heart.
I don't want my chair pulled out. But opening a door for me ugh it just melts my heart when someone is aware of being kind. And if he opens it for the elderly person behind us, even better.
Fuck society. I want a genuine heart.
smiler2012 · 61-69
@Metalbarbie 🤔yes i feel very much so that we have gentlemanly and good manners in today society. but this may be my age and how i was raised also influences this attitute too
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@smiler2012 yes of course
4meAndyou · F
Well, they may be few and far between, but I'll bet you a nickel they are ALL getting laid! 🤣🤣🤣
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@4meAndyou lol just a nickel? 😅
4meAndyou · F
@Metalbarbie I was going to go for a dollar, but then I remembered my budget...🤣🤣🤣
Not in MY experience. Seems to me that the nicer and more of a gentleman you are, the more suspicious women get. Of course, as with everything, there are rare exceptions.
So be it. 😏
So be it. 😏
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@SmileOnYourBrother You’re assuming women “pick” creepy men on purpose, which isn’t fair. Many times, these men don’t show their true colors right away. They act charming, normal, or even kind initially, and it’s only later that the red flags appear.
This is where we come full circle back to chivalry question. And your statement of women being suspicious the nicer you are. The blame for creepiness lies with the men behaving that way, not the women who unknowingly encounter them with a fake mask on.
This is where we come full circle back to chivalry question. And your statement of women being suspicious the nicer you are. The blame for creepiness lies with the men behaving that way, not the women who unknowingly encounter them with a fake mask on.
@Metalbarbie I'm sorry. I forgot the rules. I temporarily forgot this is internet social media, where all women are sugar, spice, and everything nice, without question. Completely void of blame for their bitterness. Innocent, angelic victims of creepy, evil narcissistic men on a forum where only one side of a story is ever heard. 😌
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@SmileOnYourBrother not at all. And no need for sarcasm. Women are just as bad as men. I don't disagree. But this post is about chivalry and the discussion is about "creepy men" since you brought it up. Just trying to stay on topic. And not divert into "but she ..." But it you like to discuss women and everything you mentioned maybe you should put up a post and people(include myself) can comment on that. So that way we can all stay on the actual topic 😊
scbrandon · 26-30, M
100% there is a place for it, most guys these days are incapable of it unfortunately.
NerdyPotato · M
Being respectful and caring is definitely a good thing.
I think civility is actually important for everyone
bijouxbroussard · F
What was once defined as being a gentleman is mostly just good manners, and still very important. It includes behaviors that both genders should adopt.
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@bijouxbroussard definitely
Tumbleweed · F
Especially in today's society
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Doesn't seem like it
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
You’d hope so
KarateAaron · 46-50, M
Their clothes look way too nice for the ambiance of that restaurant -- no tablecloths; uncomfortable looking chairs. This kind of makes me think of two people getting dressed up all fancy just to go to McDonalds! 😂
Lilymoon · F
Definitely
Justme264 · 70-79, M
Essential
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Yes it is!
RealRushtunDoll · 18-21, F
I think, personally, that some things are a bit outdated. But I'll have to admit that I would immediately fall for any man who gives me flowers unannounced
meJess · F
A gentleman is uncertain when behaviour is not ladylike, and embarrassed to be a gentleman when the response is rude or negative.
SinlessOnslaught · M
Idk. I've had women make me feel like a genuine creep for doing things I thought were polite.
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
Society today us fragmented. It means everything to one group and nothing to another.
iamBen · 61-69, M
I still do my best to be, but I sense that it's considered very old fashioned.
Sylphrena · 31-35
Being polite and kind is always important, even if it's not always valued.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
It is to me... And I am the one who has to live with me 24/7😷
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@whowasthatmaskedman good for you
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
A friend said years ago he had his 2 boys wear ties and dress clothes as did he, and took their mother out to dinner a very nice restaurant. His wife was quite impressed the boys even helped her sit down and move her chair at the table. His wife still talks about that years later and both boys are now married and have done the same for their wives on special occassions.
ABSOLUTELY....
But just so there is no confusion...
But just so there is no confusion...
It's nice.. society isn't always tho..
Jacko1971 · 51-55, M
I open the door for anyone.
ImNotHungry · 36-40, M
Only for ladylike women
popmol · 26-30, M
sadly not!
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Very much so
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Always
softspokenman · M
Do you mean gentlemen like Cary Gant and Clark Gable?
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@softspokenman sure I guess? Scary gant is a stud
Vin53 · M
Metalbarbie · 22-25, F
@Vin53 lol just realized. It was a typo Cary not scary 😂
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
Yes, I always open the door for my girlfriend
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
Yes although that's a very cliché depiction.
Being a gentleman means you treat everybody with respect. And this applies to all genders
Being a gentleman means you treat everybody with respect. And this applies to all genders
tenente · 100+, M
i hated my parents, but my mother demanded i treat everyone with respect and kindness and always act with integrity. if that's being a gentleman, then that's what i am
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