I feel for you and feel your pain. Ihad a breakup that I bet was a lot like yours when I was close to your current age. I can tell you that relationship is a spec in my rear view mirror today. Time fixes so much of it. At the time the internet wasn't it was today but I gave myself a healing plan.

I started to type out my healing plan but i am sure it doesn't matter --but I had one--a healing plan I wrote it out and just moved slow. I didn't date for about 6-12 months and slowly worked through it throwing time into hobbies instead and sorta waded my way back into the dating pool slowly in months 6-12.

If you partner removed their stuff from your home it was probably over long before that event happened. You probably got your confirmation months ago but may be having issues emotionally reconciling it today.

I am sorry for your pain

I read somewhere that you don’t really ever get over heartbreak, but instead you get through it a little at a time. Those words really resonated with me. It made me realize that I’m not going to just wake up one morning and be all over it, and that’s ok

It depends on your connection with the person.

In some ways it never ends, if the person was truly meaningful to you.

In other ways if you come to realize they weren’t all your mind had cracked them up to be. They become dead to you in a way.

And then there’s the in between where even if they meant the world to you, you still find a world of your own along the way.

Grieve. Feel your pain. Try not to run away from it or numb it by using sex,alcohol,drugs etc as it will only intensify your existing feelings and probably create further issues too. Focus on yourself and self care. Be very patient and give yourself grace.

I know it is very tough, challenging thing to get past heratbreaks. At times, it becomes pretty impossible to get over it - however, thats how the life is.. we somehow need to fight it, face it and overcome it.

You have to learn to be happy with yourself. Living for someone else's approval will only cause you to die (emotionally) at their disapproval.
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I've been where you are, but I made it through. PM me if you want to chat privately. I'll help where I can. No strings, I promise.

Not by any easy means. It’s especially difficult if you still have feelings for someone but at the same time, but recognize they’re no longer good for you. I’m sorry you’re going through this too.

I don't know what to tell you. Been there and this spot you are in, right now is so difficult and devastating. Relationships are complicated.

I got a cat... Seriously, animals are better life partners than some people. You eventually run into the same problem though. When they leave it still hurts.

It's a process....the beginning is the worst, so staying busy is good, but do give yourself time to reflect, because suppressing doesn't resolve it...and most importantly protect your heart...don't think back with regrets, this wasn't your fault, it was just a thing that happened.

I’ve had that happen to me. You need to give it time and get on with your own life hobbies interests and people in the mean time. It will hurt for awhile then it will hurt less and then one day you will be better.

You will never forget them, you just need to move on with your life. It takes time or it doesn’t. Be open and keep it light.

Wish I could give solid advice but I’m still battling heartbreak devastation myself …

My 1st love broke up with me. It's been years now. Im married with kids, but i think of her all the time

so sorry Bulma / ill chat if u wish inhave heart break my self to. but dont wana post it here

I’m sorry for your emotional turbulence

Grieve the shit out of it for a while and allow yourself to be hurt because it sounds like this one stung.

Then, it's just about keeping busy, occupying yourself, and trying to build your life going forwards. Make the time pass and after a point, try not to stew. Eventually it'll be a healing wound rather than a raw one.

i took a month or so to grieve, then i got back out and started dating again. found someone better. now, when the ex tries to reconnect, all she hears are crickets. LOLOL

Never really hurt me. Half the time she left me on read and made zero effort in our relationship. Letting go of her felt like a weight off my shoulders.

I am sorry about your breakup, hold your head high and remember, they didnt deserve you, its their loss!

It gets better. I promise.

Change door locks, remove them from your social circles, from your phone list and forget about them.
Get a bottle of campaign and celebrate.

by writing and listening music.

They, them?

Now is the time to focus on you.

nothing gets you over the last one...like getting under the next 6

time and space helped me work it out. hope you find comfort soon.

Shouted, Criedt, drank all too much, masturbated a lot