How did you get over your breakup?

It feels like I am drowning. I came home and they had taken everything of theirs out while I was at work. I want so desperately to talk to them, and now I have my final confirmation that it is dead and done. I wish they would just knock on the door. I need to accept that this is it but I just can't let that thought sink in or it will anchor me down for good.

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CountScrofula · 41-45, M

Grieve the shit out of it for a while and allow yourself to be hurt because it sounds like this one stung.

Then, it's just about keeping busy, occupying yourself, and trying to build your life going forwards. Make the time pass and after a point, try not to stew. Eventually it'll be a healing wound rather than a raw one.