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Have you ever cheated on your SO?

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AbbeyRhode · F

Never have, never will.

Harmony · 31-35

@AbbeyRhode good

Ducky · 31-35, F

No. We're in an open marriage, so I'm not even sure what cheating would be considered.

DarkHeaven ·

@Ducky I’d say in your case, if it’s something you had to hide from her… that would be cheating.

Ducky · 31-35, F

@DarkHeaven Good point. But she knows it all, like yours. 🙂

DarkHeaven ·

No. My wife is aware of everything I do and I’ve never physically been with anyone but her because for us that would be cheating.

nameless1 · 36-40

No i could never do that in a million years

Harmony · 31-35

@nameless1 thats good

SatyrService · M

@nameless1 all the more to recommend you

Mardrae · F

I’m single but have been married 4 times and no telling how many boyfriends in my life. But I have never once cheated on anyone. I don’t see the point. If you’re with someone who doesn’t satisfy you or make you happy, then just leave them and be single!

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Mardrae · F

@LongHairedCougar ok so just ask for an open marriage

MaybelChong · 46-50, F

@Mardrae open marriage comes with it's own set of challenges. For someone traditionally like me, it will be mental instability

Mardrae · F

@MaybelChong ok, so can you elaborate more about the situation? I mean, which one of you is doing the cheating?

Thinkerbell · 41-45, F

Nope.

Degbeme · 70-79, M

Nope.

Harmony · 31-35

@Degbeme good for you

Bleak · 36-40, F

I always wonder what makes one cheat on one’s SO???

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Bleak · 36-40, F

@OldMan70 Divorce is a better idea than cheating.

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Bleak · 36-40, F

Is cheating on not abusive??@OldMan70

SW-User

No opportunity, if I'd wanted to. Anyway, I don't believe I could do something like that. I'm seldom attracted enough to anyone to get involved.

Harmony · 31-35

@SW-User thats good

LoneVoice

Nope. Never. And I had PLENTY of opportunities to cheat if I wanted to.

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LoneVoice

@SandWitch You replied to ME...TWICE on separate posts. hahahaaa
Now please keep your distance, Alex.

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LoneVoice

@SandWitch Alex? Didn't I say that? Talk about plagiarizing the works of others. 🤣

Dusty101 · F

I have thought about it. But knew it would be the wrong decision, my child would suffer, And it certainly wouldn't be good for their mental health.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Yes, and it was absolutely worth the long(er) term experience. I was in a sexless marriage. Finding out what a real woman is like, when she wants you physically and mentally, was a game changer for me. I was divorced over five years ago and am now happily remarried.

There was a big “help” group on EP which I found very useful and friendly ages ago. A great friend from there actually brought me here. I’m very very thankful for the entire experience, including the necessary divorce.

Lovingsomeone · 31-35, F

It's not cheating if your SO knows about it and is okay with it!!!

VeronicaJane

@Lovingsomeone that'd the important thing - to have discussed and made a agreement. Sadly, too many seem to think they're too clever and try to hide it.....

LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F

Is it cheating if you think about taking care of your necessary needs when your partner loses interest in romance and only likes to work work and just work?

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

@SandWitch

@LongHairedCougar

LongHairedCougar · 46-50, F

@SandWitch awwwww come on big girl 💕

VeronicaJane

Well, not if you've discussed and expressed your frustration, and they agree for you to meet your needs elsewhere, @LongHairedCougar......

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

Not my current one. I love him too much

BLP11520 · 61-69, M

nope...not one of those guys

exexec · 61-69, C

We are a couple. So yes and no.

Castenmas · M

I’d rather die.

QCDog2659 · 61-69, M

Never did.

OldBrit · 61-69, M

Not proud of that but yes I did back in my drinking days.

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OldBrit · 61-69, M

@VeronicaJane I think she did but many years before that.

VeronicaJane

@OldBrit did you ever ask her about it?

OldBrit · 61-69, M

@VeronicaJane a very long time ago but she never said anything

submissivelittlewoman · F

Nope

wackidywack · 22-25

Turtlepower · 36-40, M

No.

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

Stillwaiting · M

Raaii · 22-25, F

hv not met m soulmate yet but yeh to me cheating is worse than killing me so will never in any way

Tres13 · 51-55, M

Was an accident

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Tres13 · 51-55, M

No standing up A knee trembler@SandWitch

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Tres13 · 51-55, M

What happened on the Bus stays on the Bus@SandWitch

Lost77 · 31-35, M

No i have never cheated on anyone i have ever been in a relationship with.

Snowvixen

Is it cheating if they know about it?

Harmony · 31-35

@Snowvixen not sure, but i'd say yes

DarkHeaven ·

@Snowvixen were they okay with it, because to me… that’s where it’s cheating. If they aren’t okay with it.

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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Not in rl

Harmony · 31-35

@samueltyler2 you mean you thought about it?

Lilymoon · F

@samueltyler2 it's still cheating 🤷‍♀️

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@Lilymoon maybe to some, but, I think 🤔 innocent flirting is not. But, that is each person's right to decide

Mohamed1Alsadek · 31-35, M

Cheating is no good to me on anyone !

malizz · 70-79, M

No, loved her too much.

Harmony · 31-35

@malizz thats nice

Coffeequilt · 51-55, F

Yes

Harmony · 31-35

@Coffeequilt will you do it again?

Coffeequilt · 51-55, F

@Harmony No, it messed everything up

Guardian · 56-60, M

No, but I was cheated on.

WhateverWorks · 36-40

Only my ex when I was really young.. like 19. Not since then mainly because I learned to never put myself in that entrapped position again with an abuser, but also if things are so lousy, you’re considering cheating it’s better for everyone to just end things.