Update: Husband introduced me to someone

I was one of those who commented on your earlier post, and I tried to encourage you to go one step further. Wow that was just 3 days ago...
I really appreciate your courage – you are headed in a positive direction! 🌷

Edit: Wow this is receiving many "likes" 😏

Another update: it is happening! After our coffee yesterday morning we have planned to get together tomorrow. He was able to clear his calendar and I am off. To say I am nervous would be an understatement but also so excited to go on this journey. My husband and I spoke at length about it last night and he is equally as excited and proud of me for taking this leap.

I have been in an open relationship before , not marriage.
This is something the two of you should have discussed before marriage.
And based on some of your replies, even now, you haven't discussed it properly. You don't have full understanding of why.
If a partner out of nowhere and without any existing marriage issues, suggests an open marriage from my part, even if it is their kink, my thought will be they are trying to catch me cheating to make divorce easier and take over my assets 👀

That aside, most women form bonds and emotional dependencies with those they have physical intimacy with. It will pose a lot of challenges in your relationship. It is not easy to love and care for two or three or four people at the same time. It is time consuming and can be emotionally draining if those connections end up being formed with excessively needy and clingy individuals.

I don't know, but I do think it is wiser to seek out emotional stability as you age, which can mean living a simpler life.

In my younger years I used partake in multiple partner relationship with an ex. I would do just as @helenS says.

I have been in your shoes and have pluses and minuses of them types of relationships. Trust me they are indeed quite fun and very enjoyable. But it can also lead to jealousy and other stuff as well.

Just always have your eyes open. These type relationships can make or break them apart.

This could lead you to world of great sexual experience that you'll remember for the rest of your life.

Enjoy and have fun. I did it, I have no regrets, and would do it again if my spouse was on board with idea.

Well, wish me luck everyone! After chatting with the guy my husband introduced me to we are going to meet for coffee this morning before we both go into work. This was the guys suggestion that way there was no pressure right off the bat. I’m nervous and excited!

As they say it is all in the mind and our perspective. You can view it as You being a patient and your husband has Doctor, recommending you to other therapists / consultants. Yes, the feelings are normal since it's the first experience.

This is interesting. You say your conversation with your husband after getting advice from SWeeps made you convinced that he was sincere. And the gentleman you are interacting with is making you nervous in the anticipation of things to come?
Lady, i have a feeling this is going the way your husband wanted.
All the best. 🙂

Well if u guys have taken this step.... It's a wonderful experience believe me. Mostly this experiment bring in better understanding among u guys. Just be open and show courage and do what ever ur hearts tell you. But first sit with ur husband and chart out the rules. That's really important

Why does he want you to try other guys? I mean, good for you, but for him? Id be looking at his reasons, all of them.

If you're not really 100%, don't let him talk you into it.

I am too traditional about my marriage. If my husband did suddenly disrespect me and my fidelity to him and wanted to pimp me out to his friends he would find himself divorced. Question is, who is your husband wanting to have sex with that he would be willing to give you away to justify it?

I will share an update of today over the next couple of days. All I will say is OMG!!

Yes, those are perfectly normal when meeting someone new you are interested in. Glad to hear you and your husband have discussed this further.

Make sure to take this slow, if you're being introduced to a person your husband knows I'd ask how long hes known him, at what point in knowing was this a plan...for either of them

i think you are being brave and very understanding just make sure you are happy to proceed and yake your time xx

Yes, quite normal to feel nervous under those circumstances. I hope it all goes well in the end.😊

"Your intuition knows what it’s doing, even when your mind doesn’t." — Anonymous

"When you know deep down something isn’t right for you – whether that’s a relationship or a medical treatment – you don’t always have a logical foundation to follow that feeling." — Anonymous

Congratulations

Did it, and lived to tell about it lol

Yes those are normal feelings and I hope you get more feelings out of a relationship with that older guy👅

Make sure you tell him everything, how you feel and the conversation with the other man.

However this goes I hope it works out well for both you and your husband

Everybody is different
Are you enjoying the conversations ????

So far so good I guess

Would you feel ok to share your husband's rationale for wanting you to do this?

This looks like one of those 🙄 posts that will never go away. Thanks, admin. for the "hide" button. 👍

Talking is good . Best of luck to you 🤞

You are being pushed into this by your husband. Why?

Variety is the spice of life... Enjoy the experience

are you sharing the conversation with your husband or does he not want to know every detail? If so, is it making him happy?

Try it……You will like it. 🤗

So what's the next step ?
How long have you been married ?

I would never make such a hardcore choice based on "opinions" here where fetishes are rampant. <<< that's all it is. If you truly wanted to, and were free about it you would have decided on your own me thinks. If you do go forward, it will change your 'relationship' forever and it will never ever be the same.

dont do it, it will endin tears, it might be anice fantasy, but in reality,its bad

So he wants you to do this on your own?

Does your hubby want to watch while you have sex with another man or just tell him the details?