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Update: Husband introduced me to someone

I posted about my husband approaching me about wanting me to be with other men. After getting a lot of good advice from people on here he and I have had much deeper and better conversations about the idea and I’ve come to understand better why he wants this and also believe that he is being very sincere and genuine about it

Since those conversations he has introduced me to a guy from his gym, he is an older gentleman, and we have only been texting so far. He seems like an incredibly kind, smart and sweet guy but I feel so nervous chatting with him. Not in a bad way but in that way you would feel when meeting someone new you are interested in.

I suppose these are normal feelings? Even more so considering the circumstances?
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helenS · 36-40, F
I was one of those who commented on your earlier post, and I tried to encourage you to go one step further. Wow that was just 3 days ago...
I really appreciate your courage – you are headed in a positive direction! 🌷

Edit: Wow this is receiving many "likes" 😏
in10RjFox · M
@helenS a great way to live life, rather than being a widow or divorced and forced to live a solitary life. I see many struggle to find a partner after losing their partner after many years of marriage and afraid to step out of home to see other men.
helenS · 36-40, F
@in10RjFox I wouldn't make too broad a statement by inferring from her specific case. But I think it may be a nice way to spice up many marriages.
jackjjackson · 70-79, M
Experience? 😉 @helenS
helenS · 36-40, F
@jackjjackson I'm sort of different – I'm on best terms with most of my ex lovers 😏
But I'm not married
jackjjackson · 70-79, M
In a lot of ways that seems like a great choice. Kids? @helenS
bluemachine · 31-35, M
@helenS u need a new lover helen of troy 😜
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@helenS i really think its very rare that a spouse accepts and actually enjoys a partners fetish.
In this case, its a huge risk. I have read of partners separating after the spouse found the other person superior in love making skills and otherwise.
You are single. Also female. Not sure how mucj you would undertand that loss for a married man.
helenS · 36-40, F
@jackjjackson Oh yes I have two children, a boy and a girl.... errrmmm they are almost adults now.
helenS · 36-40, F
@WandererTony
superior in love making skills
That's a myth, and a male obsession 😏
WandererTony · 56-60, M
@helenS maybe. I read it. Didnt speak to the woman 😀
jackjjackson · 70-79, M
Maybe not being stuck with a husband is a good thing? @helenS
helenS · 36-40, F
@jackjjackson Well I'm not married, and I can't complain 🤭
jackjjackson · 70-79, M
Yes. I m getting that. Food for thought. @helenS