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Update: Husband introduced me to someone

I posted about my husband approaching me about wanting me to be with other men. After getting a lot of good advice from people on here he and I have had much deeper and better conversations about the idea and I’ve come to understand better why he wants this and also believe that he is being very sincere and genuine about it

Since those conversations he has introduced me to a guy from his gym, he is an older gentleman, and we have only been texting so far. He seems like an incredibly kind, smart and sweet guy but I feel so nervous chatting with him. Not in a bad way but in that way you would feel when meeting someone new you are interested in.

I suppose these are normal feelings? Even more so considering the circumstances?
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Midlifemale · 61-69, M
So what's the next step ?
How long have you been married ?
SatinPetals · 36-40, F
@Midlifemale we’ve been married 11 years. Next steps right now are me and the guy figuring what may be the best way to proceed
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@SatinPetals wouldn't the next step be to invite him over to your house and see how attracted he is to you and if you really want him in bed with you ? I'll assume your husband wants to watch
SatinPetals · 36-40, F
@Midlifemale no, my husband does not want to watch and we already know there is a mutual physical attraction
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@SatinPetals so if your husband wants you to enjoy sex more, but with other men as he thinks he can't keep you satisfied, and if you are willing to test the waters, go for it. Text the guy snd go over his house wearing something revealing ....it may just improve your marriage
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@SatinPetals your husband isn’t afraid you will fall in love with the guy or otherwise interfere with the marriage ?
What kind of effect will this have on husband? Are willing to risk the marriage? Are you so unsatisfied with husband? Why?