Update: Husband introduced me to someone

I posted about my husband approaching me about wanting me to be with other men. After getting a lot of good advice from people on here he and I have had much deeper and better conversations about the idea and I’ve come to understand better why he wants this and also believe that he is being very sincere and genuine about it

Since those conversations he has introduced me to a guy from his gym, he is an older gentleman, and we have only been texting so far. He seems like an incredibly kind, smart and sweet guy but I feel so nervous chatting with him. Not in a bad way but in that way you would feel when meeting someone new you are interested in.

I suppose these are normal feelings? Even more so considering the circumstances?

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HumanEarth · F

In my younger years I used partake in multiple partner relationship with an ex. I would do just as @helenS says.

I have been in your shoes and have pluses and minuses of them types of relationships. Trust me they are indeed quite fun and very enjoyable. But it can also lead to jealousy and other stuff as well.

Just always have your eyes open. These type relationships can make or break them apart.

This could lead you to world of great sexual experience that you'll remember for the rest of your life.

Enjoy and have fun. I did it, I have no regrets, and would do it again if my spouse was on board with idea.

helenS · 36-40, F

@HumanEarth

it can also lead to jealousy

Even jealousy can be enjoyable as long as it stays playful, and her husband knows that he, and nobody else, is her man. So I think it's something between the two, with a third person slightly involved.

HumanEarth · F

@helenS I seen jealousy break out into fights or one leaving one for the other. Because they happened to me.

It happens