According to my ex, what kind of shoes girls wear.

I think Women in general often worry about being visually unforgettable, when what truly makes them unforgettable is how deeply they make someone feel seen, understood, and at peace.

Girls

Guys are much less concerned with a woman's weight than we think. Hair styles and finishing touches like matching nail polish etc

I know the only thing men care about is food and sports

Being in a committed relationship but as the girls become older & wiser as women they realise this.

Their career choice and their job and their money and their masculinity independent mindset

About what shade of lipstick they wear. Because if there is romantic situation the guy licks up the whole lipstick

How skinny a girl is

How they look without makeup. Idc about that.

Whether you noticed she got a trim. We’re still trying to figure out what ‘two inches off the ends’ means.🙆‍♂😅

What's actually for dinner.
We want to know if it's hot, cold, or comes with a drink.
😜

A person's job/status/finances and for most guys - beauty and fashion. That isn't what attracts men to become interest in women. But women are obcessed by those things especially beauty and fashion.

In reality, women's obcession with fashion and beauty isn't about appealing to men but it's actually about competing with other women for (mostly) the top 10 pct 'high value', 'high net worth' and/or 'high sexual market value' men who in reality don't care about relationships as they don't have to do anything to get women swooning over them.

Hair, make up.

What you mean when you say "fine" or "whatever".

Toenails

Their career/How much money they make

Makeup

Anything we agree to too readily while using repetitive "yes dears" when we're trying to watch football on the TV.

We in general don't care about anything apart from family and our toys (cars, bikes etc...)

What they're going to wear.

A woman's weight and looks.

I think when they're under 25, they care about it for superficial reasons. But once they hit 25 and develop more life experience and meet more people, they realize that it doesn't matter

Our nails and shoes. Just as long as they do not obstruct their view of the game on TV or our boobs...they don't really know they exist.

Flat earth

Her weight. Guys might turn to look at a skinnier girl, but that doesn't mean that's what they want. If he wanted her, he wouldn't be with you.

Reading a great deal of the comments on SW from them and the Internet at large it would seem they care about a lot 🤷🏾

But mostly it's what they want first and foremost.

no idea

I can't really speak for most men. They like stuff that doesn't interest me.