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Being perceived as a threat or pervert.

Hmmm. Society making you feel bad for looking out for your own interest kind of sucks.

If a woman isn't happy everyone tells her to do whatever she needs to do to get happy. Leave her man, uproot the kids, whatever she needs.

But if a man isn't happy and he leaves his woman or his kids then he is a terrible deadbeat or ungrateful.

Also, we dont seem to be allowed to have standards.

Women can make lists of shit they want in men, even if they themselves are fugly or plain or poor, and thats fine.

Men say they just want a woman who isn't morbidly obese and everyone starts foaming at the mouth.

Now, all these issues can be easily mitigated by not giving a fuck.

But not giving a fuck comes with a certain amount of alienation that some people can handle but plenty cannot.

Which is why men tend to have higher levels of narcissism or being emotionally distant.

We often find ourselves in societal/interpersonal situations where we have to be our own support system, and that can easily evolve into problematic pathologies.

Shweddy balls

Comparatively men don't have the same support system as women. I notice women tend to have emotionally close friendships and it's kind of a girl thing whereas guys are left out a bit?.

I notice that working in a 90% female workplace.

If I'm walking home at night and there's a girl by herself I have to cross the road so she doesn't get scared, so there's that. Sort of alienating but I'm used to it?.

I think if you're a guy living on your own it's weird and if you're a girl it's got a different connotation to it?. I noticed with my neighbours the girls would be invited to things and people would be very stiff and quiet if I passed them in the hallway. I'm very smiley and pleasant btw.

So yeah I think you're excluded more as a guy and expected to just get on with it in my experience.

Working my ass off, just to provide the basics.

being taken for granted

The honorable way for a man to die in this world is to drop dead over his work. And when he does, it’s a surprise. His wife, kids, friends, church, family… none of them had a clue he was white knuckling it through pain and sickness to keep working. In the end, all anyone misses is his paycheck, his presents, his tithing. His work. Nobody to mow the lawn, take the trash out. When the sting of that is over, he’s gone. No memory he ever existed.

In reality no one really cares about you if you fail.. A man is considered responsible for his personal situation no matter how life's random events have affected him..

If a woman gets into trouble and needs help she is far more likely to have someone respond with some form of assistance.. But for a man in trouble, he is far more likely to receive ridicule and be seen as a looser,, lazy,, or a stupid fool, who deserves to be sleeping in a cardboard box in a side ally...

The expectation for you have to be a certain kind of way, basically be manly in their eyes which different people have different meaning of what that means.

Probably the worst ones deal with dealing with stress or anxiety, supposed to just suck it up and deal with it all internally, as no one wants to hear about that shit from a man.

I’m too lazy to post about this, so gonna ask here.. is John Olinger still around? 🤔

You know.... I was going to answer.. And an😷 alarm went off in my head. "Don't go in there! Its a trap!"

Idk... couldn't be as bad as being female.

Waking up with a boner every morning and no place to put it.

If I may answer that the worst part about being a man is the parts to hang out in the front you know the lower ones they're always in the way banging into something causing problems trying to think for me so yeah that'll be my answer LOL

Having no rights when it comes to divorce.

The expected roles imposed and imprinted on us from birth regardless of our personalities, abilities, and interests. As, I am sure, it is for women. Except we are expected to be the flip side -- dominant, take charge, handy, tough, breadwinners. You know, manly.

Finding a girl that puts up with you

Blue balls

Idk...sore balls? I think one of the worst is when young men contract testicular cancer...so tragic.

Losing 60% of assets from divorce after female partner willfully killed a happy marriage with my best bro and then all freindcircle as they took her side when i never cheated in my life 😢

no matter how bad things get, you're always told how good you have it because you're a man.

Yiu can be assaulted by a woman and if you defend yourself, you get locked up and the women is made to be victim.

biased family law system

Police and judges will most always take females word over your own and admit its only to protect themselves incase anything did happen to her..

apparently now we can menstruate, so there is that

I dont know, this is a odd question when you really think about it, males and females all have advantages and disadvantages.

That time of the month -- when the man of the house has to pay the mortgage. 🤣

enlarged prostrate isssues, it disturbs the required necessary good sleep forever.

The social stigmas associated with it. Its hard to be a woman, its hard to be a man. Its these societies and the people in them. We need to all stop generalizing and coming up with these ridiculous labels for people. Im actually tired of living in a city because the media is fucking everyone up. I want to just drop everything and join an amish colony

People don't trust you easily, unless they knows you very well.

I am a rock and a rock feels no pain.

Getting pegged

Testosterone 😒

When we tell someone that we are having mental health or emotional issues we get, at worst, laughed at and ridiculed, and at best ignored.

Hormones, during puberty you can get hard af over the drop of a leaf and everyone assumes youre a f-ing perv

It's incredibly hard to find love.

That's basically it honestly.

Nothing to me. Perhaps the hardest thing is always trying to be a gentleman. 🙂🌺

Being kicked in the nuts. Thats about the only thing i can really think of.

Getting kicked in the nuts by a woman. And cooking your own breakfast.

Putting up with half men at work that are basically still children and minors in adult bodies acting as if they're grown up. Lack of courage, fortitude, temperance, patience and inner strength. These skills takes decades to acquire. Some men grow old and never develop them.

too many things,there are good things of course.
when you want sex and you have no partner you can go down dark roads,that i think women dont seem to go down.but being a man isnt the joy ride women seem to think,there are a ton of rules and expectations that society rightly i guess puts on you.

Getting hit in the balls

My large prostate.

Being shamed for my micro peen

Most of us not saying all are little rough around the edges could be a little more forgiving I think I no I could

Hard to not look at attractive females with out getting in trouble. So I just take little quick looks.

If you are a white man beyond middle age you become an invisible irrelevance

Most of the worts things about are the emotional costs of the better ones.

Just the sensirive area between my legs. Otherwise it's fine.

Toxic masculinity.

Dunno. I have nothing to compare it with..

Gotta be strong.

Sad.

Cause we're all human.