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If a woman is in her 40s and says she only wants to date men from ages 18 to 24, would you say she's a creep?

Iwantout · 26-30, M
Yeah just as creepy as a man that would go after someone so young just down right disgusting
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Iwantout so good luck finding compatible partners if you limit your choices to people within a +/- 5 yr range. I'm fully open but of course know at 54 nobody in their 20's or 30's (and most in their 40's) will never be interested. Over 50 and you're a throw-out candidate really.
Iwantout · 26-30, M
@zonavar68 oh did I hurt your feelings lol :)
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Iwantout I probably should fill in a Hurt Feelings Report and submit it hey. 8-)
SW-User
Yes she’s a creep if he’s only 18 that’s only still a teen and not proper adult yet. If the guy is 24 then obviously it’s still very unusual but at least he’s grown up.
Darin99branch · 51-55, M
@SW-User you said at 24 he’s grown up? I was a 24 year old “man” once. Not grown up, for sure. 😆😆
SW-User
@Darin99branch It’s an adult but it’s not mature.
Darin99branch · 51-55, M
@SW-User yup
Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP
🙂 My goodness its all psychology on here today .
While it wouldnt be fair to speculate , I would say the main reason is likely to one of 3

Needs lots an excessive amount of male attention.

Has a high sex drive - as its uncommon for men in that age bracket not to deliver

Has a boarderline Paedophile personality

Has a combination of the above
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@Kae20 Or she like a big power difference. She likes to be the one who is more established .
Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP
@JimboSaturn A fair point which I hadn't thought of .. putting a usual 4 scenarios on the table 🐒
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@Kae20 I think some men are like that too. They want a younger woman that won't challenge them and they will have all the emotional and financial power.
Mardrae · F
Age is just a number and if they are both happy in their relationship, who cares? Who are we to judge? Personally it’s not for me- I would only date someone my own age or very close in age. What could you possibly have in common besides sex? What would there be to talk about?
Anielka · F
No she just wants someone that can keep up with her in bed.
SW-User
She wants a guy that can Fuck!
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
I would say it's unusual and not something I would admire but everyone is different.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@Roundandroundwego I don't think I am fully understanding you
@JimboSaturn Ladies know that's the men with the most sexual abilities and sperm. One more baby before menopause is a really important baby. These flings aren't just for fun. But fun they are -or were for me, that was twenty five years ago!
I want there to be people, and I want them to love life.
@Roundandroundwego speaking as a woman, im with @JimboSaturn ...you make no sense 😅
I have never EVER in my life, looked at a man and thought, "hmmm, how good a sperm bank is he?".

And as to "one more baby before menopause"...!?!?
Are you kidding!!!
Who wants to be going through menopause AND looking after a baby?
Matt85 · 36-40, M
Bloody cougars
Isthisit · F
Yes i would. That is such a young age group. It seems like she would just want to groom them.
@Isthisit having sex is nothing. People despise that. So we see. They're dying and sick.
I would say she is desperate because those guys are so horny they will **** anything, even her so long as she is cheap and easy. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Whatever it takes for her to feel young again I s'pose.
@LoneVoice are you saying women in their 40’s are desperate and old?
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
Her choice. Same as guys in their 40's up only wanting to date girls in their 20's
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
I say she's channeling madonna
suzette · 46-50, F
No, it's not grooming either.
Convivial · 26-30, F
No... Why should i?
HannahSky · F
I'd say a man wrote this
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Funlov · M
18. Slow young I wouldn’t wanna guy her age trying to date my 18 year old daughter I don’t think it would end good for him. That’s the truth that’s all sick.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
Pretty much every woman on a dating site restricts her matching preferences to her exact age or just one or two years older. Or seems to.
turnedtostone · 56-60, F
I find it creepy that anyone want to date anybody that could be the same age as their child.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@turnedtostone I totally agree
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
No worse than a guy in his 40s wanting women 18 to 24, yet that seems more acceptable. Weird or not....?
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
Considering the fact that women try to say the same exact thing when the genders are reversed, yes. I do.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Yes most likely but I'm sure there would be reasons beyond just her being a cougar.
Teslin · M
Well, she may have missed her early dating days and is trying to make up for it?
Darin99branch · 51-55, M
I think in current vernacular, creep in this case is spelled “C O U G A R.” So I’ve heard…😆
Midnightoker1 · 61-69, M
Depends, what would you think if a guy in is 40,s said the same thing?
LuckyHoe · 36-40, M
@Midnightoker1 Well the person is considered an adult so odd, but not too creepy. Now if the interest in age range is 17 on down then yeah, it's a problem.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
I would need to know her to decide if she’s creepy or not.
She has a brother issue. Probably had sex with her brother
Of course not, that's her preference.
dale74 · M
Nope she just wants something with no comment
Yes. However, I admit that’s super judgy of me.
If those guys are ok with it, Who am I to judge her ?
cuddles1266 · 70-79, M
Nope. I'd say she is adventurous and fun loving.
JustScott · M
I thought the term was cougar
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
I got a quite nice positive (if you can call it that) dating site reply just today from a woman the same age as me declining my introductory invitation because she wants to 'date younger' (her words). She ticked all the right boxes in terms of being a wonderful soul for me based on her profile.

https://www.pof.com/viewprofile?profileId=335984808
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Her choice!
She isn’t doing any harm
No. They're the best for sex.
hminuk · 61-69, M
Young at heart I suppose.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
Cougar not creep
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
It's grooming yes
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Mrs. Stifler?
Morrowind · 26-30, M
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
She’s insecure and grasping her youth and a feeling of acceptance and power. She’s probably super controlling as she doesn’t want an equal only a toy plaything.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Insecure about her age
That or is not prepared to accept she's getting older. I on the other hand always preferred older guys, though now I'm in my 40s I'm inclined to accept those around my age or perhaps a little older; have a nice day. 😁
Monalisaa1986 · 36-40, F
Men as soon as they divorced in there 50’s they want to date women that are 18 , so why not

 
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