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I wish I could figure out why I'm so disliked

I've never felt like I belong in this world.
BlueVeins · 22-25
I very much feel the same way. That's why I live here with you all. <3
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@BlueVeins aww, I've interacted with you on here before, you seem like a cool dude
BlueVeins · 22-25
@Lilliesandlight You are a little angel. 🤗
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@BlueVeins thanks sweetie 🤗
NickyLee · 41-45
Me too. Id do anything for anyone and I'm a genuinely good person. Im just also not very liked
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@NickyLee same here
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Personally I have come to terms with the fact that I ain't everyone cup of tea 😒
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
The way I see it is either you misinterpret people's reactions for dislike or you constantly do something that rubs people the wrong way. Are you too clingy? Are you too cold and callous? Do you talk over others? Do you talk to others in a condescending way? Those are common reasons that come to my mind why majority of people might dislike someone.
@CrazyMusicLover Good points.
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
Never focus on the negatives, it will drag you down. Say "F**k them!" and concentrate on the good things in life. We can't be liked by everyone, nor should we expect to be.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Awww, I’m sure that you’re very liked, you seem really nice!
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Strongtea thank you 🫂
Strongtea · 22-25, M
You’re welcome. There’s no reason why people shouldn’t like you! 😊@Lilliesandlight
SteelHands · 61-69, M
That's pretty often just self demeaning mantras and negative expectation making itself manifest in reality what someone or some circumstances in the past falsely had convinced you.

Maybe. It's possible you really are a like other perfectly crappy people and myself. Although it isn't that common. I doubt you have what it takes to be as exceptionally schgritty as me though. Lol
exexec · 61-69, C
I'm sorry you feel that way. I suggest that you find a way to volunteer your services. It could be anything, as long as you are working with other people. I think you will find acceptance and maybe even add some meaning to your existence.
Ferric67 · M
I don't dislike you
HappyCamper74 · 46-50, M
I'm sorry that you feel like you're disliked and don't fit anywhere.
I have nothing against you. If you ever want to chat and try to start a friendship, I will be glad to hear from you in my PM's.
Starguy · 26-30, M
Was gonna post something similar. Same, I really don't fit in at all anywhere. It's really eating me up the past few days.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Starguy it's been like this my whole life. I'm nice to people, a bit quite at times. But I'm friendly too. But everyone just turns on me.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
I suppose we could start by asking yourself why it is so important to you to be liked?? But first and most importantly, do you like you??😷
in10RjFox · M
That's quite simple.. it's because you like nothing in this world.. but you wish to be liked.
Montanaman · M
I'm Happy having you as a friend and I'll Never turn on you 🤗🤗♥️🤗🤗
Some people are just mean. You will find nice people here.
Wolffy · 56-60, M
I know thay feelin hun always flet same here birn on wrong planet
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
You probably are not just paying attention to the wrong ones.
You just gotta keep singing your own song, alas
Cloud7593 · 46-50, F
Hard to say, people hate for no reason.
Cassius to Brutus in [i]Julius Caesar[/i]:
[quote][We] at some time are masters of their fates: / The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, / But in ourselves,[/quote]
You should look at your encounters with others in some depth and with reflection and see if you can find the cause(s). It is just not likely that an inoffensive person can be so widely disliked.
SW-User
Sorry to hear that. 😕
Zaphod42 · 46-50, M
You and me both 🤷‍♂️
laotzu92 · 70-79, M
@therighttothink50 Naturally, given my screen name, I would tend to endorse the second comment. 🙂
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
I'm sorry. Is this overall or just here? Surely someone, if not a couple people, enjoy your company.🌺
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@MoonlightLullaby irl. My anxiety gets the best of me unfortunately
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
@Lilliesandlight I have anxiety myself and it's awful. In publicmine is different because I don't enjoy being around other people. Hopefully there's some way to calm your nerves and maybe try one on one interaction.
It is a quandary, one I don't have the answers to. Maybe I do not fit the mold. Anything is possible
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
i don't know you, so i can't dislike you
Manneeds · 41-45, M
I know how you feel i feel the same way 110%
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
All people care about is money.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Sometimes when you are doing things right people hate you for that
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
I guess we aren't cut out for this world you and I.
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