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I wish I could figure out why I'm so disliked

I've never felt like I belong in this world.

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BlueVeins · 22-25

I very much feel the same way. That's why I live here with you all. <3

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

@BlueVeins aww, I've interacted with you on here before, you seem like a cool dude

BlueVeins · 22-25

@Lilliesandlight You are a little angel. 🤗

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

@BlueVeins thanks sweetie 🤗

NickyLee · 41-45

Me too. Id do anything for anyone and I'm a genuinely good person. Im just also not very liked

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

@NickyLee same here

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

The way I see it is either you misinterpret people's reactions for dislike or you constantly do something that rubs people the wrong way. Are you too clingy? Are you too cold and callous? Do you talk over others? Do you talk to others in a condescending way? Those are common reasons that come to my mind why majority of people might dislike someone.

LamontCranston · M

@CrazyMusicLover Good points.

LilPrincess · 46-50, F

Personally I have come to terms with the fact that I ain't everyone cup of tea 😒

Matt85 · 36-40, M

Maybe you were meant to be around saints and no less.

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

@Matt85 sometimes i wonder is there is something different about me. In a spiritual sense

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

Never focus on the negatives, it will drag you down. Say "F**k them!" and concentrate on the good things in life. We can't be liked by everyone, nor should we expect to be.

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

I suppose we could start by asking yourself why it is so important to you to be liked?? But first and most importantly, do you like you??😷

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Awww, I’m sure that you’re very liked, you seem really nice!

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

@Strongtea thank you 🫂

Strongtea · 22-25, M

You’re welcome. There’s no reason why people shouldn’t like you! 😊@Lilliesandlight

oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M

i my case is because i do not put up with BS ,, and tell people the truth ,,,

Ferric67 · M

I don't dislike you

exexec · 61-69, C

I'm sorry you feel that way. I suggest that you find a way to volunteer your services. It could be anything, as long as you are working with other people. I think you will find acceptance and maybe even add some meaning to your existence.

HappyCamper74 · M

I'm sorry that you feel like you're disliked and don't fit anywhere.
I have nothing against you. If you ever want to chat and try to start a friendship, I will be glad to hear from you in my PM's.

Starguy · 26-30, M

Was gonna post something similar. Same, I really don't fit in at all anywhere. It's really eating me up the past few days.

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

@Starguy it's been like this my whole life. I'm nice to people, a bit quite at times. But I'm friendly too. But everyone just turns on me.

BLP11520 · 61-69, M

I stopped caring what people think. I know who I am and what is in my heart 🫂

in10RjFox · M

That's quite simple.. it's because you like nothing in this world.. but you wish to be liked.

Sojournersoul · M

Some people are just mean. You will find nice people here.

Wolffy · 56-60, M

I know thay feelin hun always flet same here birn on wrong planet

Montanaman · M

I'm Happy having you as a friend and I'll Never turn on you 🤗🤗♥️🤗🤗

Subsumedpat · 36-40, M

You probably are not just paying attention to the wrong ones.

Cloud7593 · 46-50, F

Hard to say, people hate for no reason.

stound

You just gotta keep singing your own song, alas

SW-User

Sorry to hear that. 😕

LamontCranston · M

Cassius to Brutus in Julius Caesar:

[We] at some time are masters of their fates: / The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, / But in ourselves,

You should look at your encounters with others in some depth and with reflection and see if you can find the cause(s). It is just not likely that an inoffensive person can be so widely disliked.

Zaphod42 · 51-55, M

You and me both 🤷‍♂️

therighttothink50 · 56-60, M

laotzu92 · 70-79, M

@therighttothink50 Naturally, given my screen name, I would tend to endorse the second comment. 🙂

MoonlightLullaby

I'm sorry. Is this overall or just here? Surely someone, if not a couple people, enjoy your company.🌺

Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F

@MoonlightLullaby irl. My anxiety gets the best of me unfortunately

MoonlightLullaby

@Lilliesandlight I have anxiety myself and it's awful. In publicmine is different because I don't enjoy being around other people. Hopefully there's some way to calm your nerves and maybe try one on one interaction.