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CaptainBarbossasHusband · 36-40, MNew
Less. But that being said, my current therapist and I are working on me being more aware of my emotions bc even as a kid I had trouble expressing myself in that regard.

Had one session with intense emotional therapy so far, and it was the scariest and most intense thing I ever tried.

Even trumping the time I moved abroad without knowing anyone there, in spite of never even leaving my country before.

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
I find as i have gotten older and learned about other lived experiences and what they deal with on the daily, i have become more sensitive to other people's emotions. I, in turn, have empathy and compassion.

So as I have aged, i have become softer and more understanding allowing me to feel a wealth of emotions, both good and bad.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Erm......lets say I channel them differently. I don't 'waste' them so much on things that dont really matter in the grand scheme of life, i've always had a tendency to become to invested in other peoples woes, causing myself more stress......but not so these days.
Its much clearer these days whats really important, and so emotionally....those things matter more than ever.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Less. I have more resilience and greater ability to regulate how I feel these days. I've had some therapy and it's been a journey getting here though!
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
With every battle throughout my life (which were many) I’ve gotten a little bit stronger every time. So less as I get older. I try my best to cast the petty things aside and focus my emotional energy on the other things.
Both, my nature is sensitive and emotional, but sometimes reason comes shining through when I listen to some people and it's not I don't feel empathy or sensitivity towards them, it becomes more, you still did this? Yet if you give me an emotional story I am more likely to feel my eyes jerk while holding back tears.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
i think i'm getting colder and more bitter for people doing better than me
but feeling more for people who need help
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
I am getting more as i get older. I try to stay strong but some days things can get me down
Ironicman · 56-60, M
Kind of. I would say I'm more rational in probably the last quarter of what's left of my life. It's all positive though.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
Less, and more pataient.

Emotional out bursts were never my thing, i have seen those enough and the terrible outcome.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Less i think.
For me anyway.

You take life's knocks and become hardened.
More for self-preservation than anything else.
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
I keep going back and forth with feeling numb and feeling too much lately. I guess I am more emotional now, I seem to be crying a lot more which sucks and it's harder to put my emotions away and fake it.
urbancowboy · 56-60, M
I feel I get more emotional
Fertilization · 36-40, F
More emotional
anoderod55 · 61-69, M
More emotional 🦋
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Maybe less emotion a, or maybe I'm just too tired to feel much most of the time.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
AdmiralPrune · 41-45, M
I find family are much more important to me.

The world can go to hell, but so long as my folks are all okay I’m fine with it.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
hunkalove · 70-79, M
I cry a lot. Cute kittens on Facebook make me cry.
FlowerPetal · 22-25, F
my emotions changes but didn't get less
I have a much better hold on my temper and I’m less likely to cry than when I was younger.
Nunki · 31-35, F
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Less. Or maybe I'm just numb right now.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@ScreamingFox I think you are getting stronger.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@cherokeepatti I don't really know. I'm kinda lost at the moment.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@ScreamingFox I have felt that way several times in my life. But sat myself down and did a self-reflection and review. By the 34 years ago I was on a plane that took off in Dallas headed towards Los Angeles. About 20 minutes in the air the captain announced that we were turning back to the airport in Dallas for an emergency landing. That was bad enough. Got on another plane which they checked out really good. We landed safely. A few days later we did a roadtrip to Mexico. Foolishly we drove the car to Rosarita instead of walking across and renting a car. The next day we were driving into Tijuana and for some reason a small mountain road and the ball joint broke.Stuck there until Ray walked down to a neighborhood. He spoke a little Spanish and found man who offered to take him to a car part store in Tijuana. Loaned him a tool and Ray replaced the ball joint himself. This situation could have ended badly and the emergency landing did too. A couple weeks later after getting home I started thinking of how many incidents I’ve had in my life that could have ended my life. I got out a spiral notebook and made a list. There were over 30 things then. I decided that I am a survivor. I figured there were good reasons for that. It wasn’t my time to go, I was for some unknown reason here for something that will one day I will then realize, and that I have divine protection. I have had more incidents since then and I always think back to this. And also the hard times that I consider challenges and trials. Those things have built strength and resilience and shaped my attitude as well.
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Nunki · 31-35, F
“Angels” in what sense @HowtoDestroyAngels
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
@Nunki I was just kidding. It's the name of a band.
Nightwings · 31-35, F
More emotional over movies and music, less emotional over real-life things.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
I find myself becoming wiser with age, as one should.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
It depends on whats happening in your life.
ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M
Less.

and

Lesser.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Neither. Never been really emotional though.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
More, weirdly.
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
It depends on my level of rage on that day.
Charity · 61-69
Less unless provoked
Kiesel · 56-60, M
More it seems
They've darkened.
Unquestioned · 70-79, M
Less, in all areas of the word.

 
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