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Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
with respect

The same way we do. Just say no thank you and keep it pushing. 🤷🏾
Both sides are SUPPOSED to behave like grownups. Nice grownups.

This is not working for me. I don’t want to see you anymore. I wish you well.

There should be no guns, knives, bombs, razors or fires in play.

If you’re not mature enough to break up without violence or stalking or all the other stuff, you are not mature enough to date.
@bowman81 To me, Kermit or not, not even remotely amusing.
@bowman81 That’s dark. 😱
bowman81 · M
@bijouxbroussard Very Dark. Some things never leave you, especially as I approach the "Holidays". Laugh or cry, in the grand scheme of things, it makes no difference.
Magenta · F
With respect and care and not the cruelty of ghosting. Ego and selfishness plays a large part in that. Plus if you aren't clear and concise, it creates much confusion.
@Magenta some just don't understand it... 🤣
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Punxi · F
With tack and dignity.
@Punxi how? Do tell
Jackrules · 56-60
Just be honest and tell her it’s not you, it’s just my perception of you.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Politely. Not that it has happened a lot. I'm usually the one being politely rejected. Yet I appreciate it being polite.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
I've been rejected all kinds of ways. It's best to just politely say no.
@ScreamingFox wow...

If you look at it carefully, weren't those bad choices or choices made just for the fun or under the influence? I could be wrong... Just saying
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@Royricky09 wut? I just asked guys out , some said yes, some said no.
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Just being disinterested should be enough. Rejecting is very hard and requires words I’d rather not speak.
SteelHands · 70-79, M
A woman that is willing and able to be rejected doesn't have the kind of self esteem and pride that I would want my children's mom to have. If she isn't chaste, and doesn't have a number of potential suitors why would I be interested in the first place?

And what good would I be to her if I was only a pick me boy? I'll tell you. Not much.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
From funny to serious to thoughtful ones


1. Pause conversation.

2. Playing the song - 'Go your own way'

3. If you are a details sort of guy, chronologically state the points which lead to this rejection

4. Open the fuel cap, pour sugar.

5. Move away quietly. Exit the neighbourhood

6. Change status to newly single across all platforms
@scorpiolovedeep all good except 3rd.
Tumbleweed · F
Very carefully 😈
@Tumbleweed hahahahaha.... 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
4meAndyou · F
@Tumbleweed ☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻 THIS!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@Tumbleweed we agreed
SomeIrishPerson · 31-35, M
Elessar · 31-35, M
@SomeIrishPerson Signed letter sent in copy also to the notary office, that'll return it countersigned and stamped, so you can fax it to her 📠
Julien · 36-40, M
Just be honest and say how you feel
Like anyone nicely with respect.
With tact and as soon as they know she’s not for him. In person too.
Politely but firmly.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Very carefully.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
I usually show them the door as needed.
@MasterLee


Like that... 🤣
MasterLee · 56-60, M
@Royricky09 rinse and repeat
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
With honesty?
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Put red flags all over your profile pic and don't start up with their craziness in the first place. Since they are constantly putting men under their 'qualifying' 🙄 microscope and seeking red flags, give them what they are l👀king for. 🚩😁🚩
Adogslife · 61-69, M
With tact and grace.
calicuz · 56-60, M
Tell her you got a job transfer out of state. 😎
@calicuz tried... Didn't work for me lol
calicuz · 56-60, M
faery · F
Just say you're not interested. It works on everyone under the sun
YoMomma ·
Ghosting i think
PatKirby · M
Tactfully speak the truth, privately. It does no one any good to avoid the inevitable.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Wait.. it works THAT WAY?
Thought it was only the opposite way
Levenrack · 46-50, M
@Kiesel
@Kiesel not as often as opposite way... 🤣
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
If they want to then yes!
Trav2024 · 51-55, M
This is a trick question: UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES ARE MEN SUPPOSED TO REJECT WOMEN.
Trav2024 · 51-55, M
@Royricky09 I'm fking sorry. I'll leave SW now. Sorry about my bad day.
@Trav2024 no worries. Cheer up and cheers 🍻
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
@Trav2024 Welcome to equality..😷
ElRengo · 70-79, M
There is a word.
No.
Other words may be added to make it better.
Vin53 · M
Be gay is one way.
@Vin53 Yeah, but guys should be able to say ”no thanks” without being accused of being gay. 🙄
@Vin53 good one
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Chew with your mouth open, don't take showers...have bad manners.
@FloorGenAdm lol... That'll disgust the man more than her... 🤣
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
4meAndyou · F
Don protective armor, and hold up a shield if her nails are more than 2" long. 🤣🤣🤣

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@Nunlover lol... That'll be double blow.. 🤣
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@ViciDraco Wow. What a good sport!
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KeyserSoze · 36-40, M
Fake your death and have a new identity, obviously.
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
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