I haven't had anal in a while, I know it will hurt , so I am avoiding it but the longer I wait the worst it gets

My husband has me wear plugs of different sizes.

Anal sex does NOT have to be painful. There are small toys you can start with, working your way up to larger and larger sizes. Also, take the time to warm up and stretch yourself before sex until you are comfortable. Your anal sphincter is a muscle, treat it as such and you'll enjoy yourself. I mean unless pain is your thing, lol😉

My ex was too large so I only said yes on his birthday

Break in is gonna be uncomfortable at first, do remember to push out on it and it’ll go in better. If your luck is like mine has been the guy will have a wide cock and hurt even more than usual.

Relax and enjoy it

Once was enough for my wife in college. Never again.

Pretend this is your first time having anal and start from the beginning — fingers, small toys, lots of lube, the whole nine yards. Spend as much time as you need stretching yourself out until it's comfortable.

Or just skip it. "Yeah, that used to be nice, but I've moved on"

Practice with a toy and some lube. No, a little more lube. A little more… and a little bit more just to be safe.

Use plenty of lube and tell him to start slow you got this

start soft, and work it up to hard

Well I looked for this comment but nobody else went there so I will; keep avoiding it, for the rest of your life.

Practice? 🤷‍♂

Use a toy or a smaller guy?

Grit your teeth.

Asstroglide

Practice with butt plug and lotsa lube

Practice with a suction cup dildo

Cry