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SW men...do you enjoy your gf/partner to...

A. Wear makeup, fashionable clothes, be into how she presents herself?

Or,
B. to be au naturale or minimal makeup, prefers casual clothes/tees, and is laid back about appearances?

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TinyViolins · 31-35, M

Come as you are. The packaging is not as important as what lies inside. As long as she's comfortable, that's all that matters to me

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TinyViolins · 31-35, M

@Coralmist That's the old Bukowski quote: "Drink from the well of yourself and begin again". It's important to understand what we stand for, what we value, so that we can continue our path and renew our focus on that which matters to us.

No matter what anyone says M, you're an amazing person that emanates so much warmth and kindness into this world that one would have to be a fool not to notice.

I've had to deal with social anxiety too, so I know how hard it can be to accept hearing positive things about yourself, but I hope you can believe me when I say that you are worth it.

Your kindness blows me away any time I log on here and that's no small feat. I truly hope you can learn to internalize how much of beautiful soul you are, because others will definitely need that warmth on their own journeys

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@TinyViolins I appreciate that, thank you. Many though are kind and giving, and I wonder in terms of love, will kindness be enough? I have to decline many social things and I feel it will be a burden to someone. So then I dont feel worth and decline dates. Fun stuff. But i do ty for those words 🌿

TinyViolins · 31-35, M

@Coralmist Kindness is a good starting point, but relationships seem to involve a great deal of work. I think as long as you're committed to putting in the work, like going to social things and troubleshooting problems, the love you have to offer will truly blossom.

It's like planting a seed, I guess. It's a good first step, but you also gotta get your hands a little dirty to make sure it can grow into what it's supposed to grow into

Ontheroad · M

B. all the way. Makeup needs to be minimal, like a bit of lipstick if she must, and none is even better. Clothes around the house can be pj's or sweats, or whatever is comfortable, and barefoot, socks or slippers. Then, unless it's a black tie thing, go out as casual as possible... like a comfy pair of jeans, flats, sandals, Chuck Taylors, etc., and a tee for warm weather and a sweater or sweatshirt as it gets cooler.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Ontheroad Nice, ty Road🌻

gdon39 · 46-50, M

It’s a pretty simple answer after years of completely answering the question wrong for years.

I don’t have any real position in how she looks bc it is really more about how it makes her feel.

It took quite a few years before I realized that.

Women are the most amazing

Whodunnit · M

It's fifty/fifty for me. I'd mainly just want her to feel comfortable and confident in however she decided to present herself.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

I appreciate that she displays herself as she feels need to. It’s not up to me, I just think she’s gorgeous anyway!!

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

B. If you want to wear make up, thats up to you. But life is alot easier with out it.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@GuyWithOpinions I agree!!

exexec · 61-69, C

"A" is the only choice I have with my wife. She always wants to look her best.

reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M

I prefer natural with the exception of body hair that i like shaved completely. when I met my gf she was much into makeup and fake nails but with time with me she is less like that. I prefer her in a simple summer dress, nothing too fancy. she's so brautiful she could wear a potato sack and still look amazing.

Cuda6868 · 51-55, M

Time and a place for both to be sure 👍🏻

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

Both have their place.

rrraksamam · 31-35, M

I'm pretty casual and laid back about appearances, so it'd be cool if she was too.
Unless we're going to a party and she wants us to outdress everyone else and win a trophy for being the most beautiful couple.

Allelse · 36-40, M

I don't really care what she wears, but I love seeing women wearing really comfortable clothing or in pajamas.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Allelse Nice...I think women want to feel like their guy will love them even if they dont wear heels or tight jeans. Thanks🍂

Allelse · 36-40, M

@Coralmist Ugh!!! I cant stand heels and tight jeans, give me sweat pants and a stained, oversized shirt any day.

Elessar · 26-30, M

Anything they're comfortable with,so long as it's reciprocal and I'm not expected to be wearing €700 in clothes.

Riverman2 · 56-60, M

I prefer B most of the time but when going out for dinner or a special event it can be fun to do some A.

SomeMichGuy · M

Mix.

Minimal is nice, but sexy clothing (I don't care about fashionable clothing) & presentation is nice, too.

daddybloke · 46-50, M

her face her body her choice although she does like to tell me what i'm wearing

Firegod74 · 46-50, M

I dont care if she is dolled up or stripped down. Just be ready when im ready.

Rokasu · 36-40, M

I prefer my man with the thickest butt cheeks around.

DownTheStreet · 56-60, M

Heck it totally depends, it’s always more about the vibe

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

Just come as you are, bring an air of mystery with you

ScarletWitch · 31-35, F

They don't get a say in how we feel about ourselves. 😅

Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

Laid back is better in my opinion.

Banksy83 · 41-45, M

Come to Lancashire as you want

R5000 · 41-45, M

Deodorant and shampoo is a must

NeoNeo · 46-50, M

Either is fine

DrWatson · 70-79, M

I go for B.

GovanDUNNY · M

I take pride in my appearance, so I expect her, and she is always immaculate when she comes to stay, to do the same.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@GovanDUNNY So not into women who like casual or tees, with light makeup or even none?

GovanDUNNY · M

@Coralmist When we go out yes, indoors not bothered

DCarey · 46-50, M

BackyardShaman · 61-69, M

anoderod55 · 61-69, M

B🦋💖 🌹

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

I think that both approaches are valid for different applications.

DDonde · 31-35, M

case by case thing

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@DDonde So no preference out of the two

DDonde · 31-35, M

@Coralmist Without context yeah

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

B always

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Justenjoyit 👍Yayy lol

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

Generally B. Makes A stand out a little more. But also comfort usually translates into more pleasant interaction.

PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M

I personally would prefer B in most cases, but at the end of the day it is her choice and it is just as important, if not more, that she is comfortable with whatever she is choosing. Of the many things important to me in a relationship, whether she is A or B in that way is fairly low on my list.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I am will do what makes me happy

SW-User

gf/partner = 😒

Sick joke

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