IamBack · 31-35, M
Stay strong ❤🩹
I don't have any words to say ...but I understand what you are saying . I feel depleted at times too . When you are a constant giver you will most likely feel it the hardest . I'm sorry sweet lady you are feeling that way ..🫂
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
If nobody ever told you ,you have a right to your feelings.
Most of us can be blind to our fellow suffers and just stay in our own coccons, I don't believe it's always out of cruelty,but perhaps indiffrences is more insipid.
And of course their are the vampires who just drain you.
For myself I had to learn some boundaries and come to the realization I'm not at all responsible for others happiness nor their lack of.
Most of us can be blind to our fellow suffers and just stay in our own coccons, I don't believe it's always out of cruelty,but perhaps indiffrences is more insipid.
And of course their are the vampires who just drain you.
For myself I had to learn some boundaries and come to the realization I'm not at all responsible for others happiness nor their lack of.
Bang5luts · M
You aren't alone. To be loved, appreciated and to be truly seen for who we are I believe are some of our greatest needs. I know they are some of mine. To also be heard and understood. These are crucial and yet basic needs I believe that too often go unfulfilled. 😪
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
When is the point where we take control of our own lives? Its supposed to be once we become adults but obviously everyone didn't get the memo. If people treat you a certain way its because you allow them to. You are sitting there just taking it and expecting it to change. Nothing is stopping you from going out there and finding someone, but YOU! If you dont want your life to be empty, then fill it! There are millions of ways to meet new people, or even reconnect with old ones. But Just being idle and complaining about it gets you nowhere.
I understand. In so many ways.
Wish we could have nibs and talk
Wish we could have nibs and talk
PalteseMalconFunch · 36-40, T
I feel like a tool or an object to everyone around me. It’s not the same but I know that feeling of isolation :-(
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I feel the same way, I try and try but no one cares
Matt85 · 36-40, M
have a walk into town and see all the hotties notice you :)
also, i wonder, could you have compassion fatigue?
also, i wonder, could you have compassion fatigue?
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Matt85 · 36-40, M
@MarbleMarvel its a tricky act but you can correct these customers and still keep your job and your own energy. im not sure how its done but i've seen it being done. you like correct the asshats but you do it in a friendly or neutral way.
@Matt85 I'm just silly and ignore it mostly, but when it's the only human interaction you have it just gets old.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
@MarbleMarvel man i'd love to be served by you :)
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I relate 100%
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Pizzaguy213 · M
Hope you are doing all right
Freetime · 56-60, M
The emptiness is the worst part of being unwanted.
being · 36-40, F
What happened ?
@being it's just like this some days. I'm usually okay with being trash to others because I'm good with myself, but some days I wake up so depleted it angers me that no one can offer me any kind of compassion or kindness at all. (In my real life)...
being · 36-40, F
@MarbleMarvel hmm is there some older friend you keep contact with over the phone or messenger perhaps ?
Perhaps you can initiate something or invite someone ? I am glad when another is finding the courage to invite me. There are more lonely people out there than what it appears...
Perhaps you can initiate something or invite someone ? I am glad when another is finding the courage to invite me. There are more lonely people out there than what it appears...