@Lovebird both. On my end, I have trouble dealing with rejection... like if I'm into you but you're not in to me.... then it seems to me the best way to cope is "letting go" even if I don't want to... but also that is now called ghosting.... I think it's called coping with rejection or hurt feelings. It may or may not apply here, on this site. And why others may "ghost" others on this site ... can't answer for. ..I can guess that the person really isn't who they pretend to be or something else I don't know. Ultimately it means they're not interested in the "arrangement " or direction of the online "relationship" and if they can't tell you are too hurt or embarrassed or unaware:overwhelmed of /by their own reasoning

@poisonouscupcake at least you got that out of the way and off your chest and now you can somehow move on. He'll survive after the initial shock or disappointment

@FoxyQueen I'm so sorry!

@FoxyQueen That's difficult, I have been the one to break up with both relationships I was in, but I knew in my heart to talk with them even if my heart knew the ending. I knew I had to face their emotions, along with mine, and a part of me wanted to stay open if their words or how they respond change my heart I would listen, but I also knew I'm probably in for a world of hurt and I still came to them with how I felt.

@robbie2499 Thanks. It was really hard. He was the closest thing I had ever met to my soulmate, so when he disappeared, it was devastating. I was in a 5 year deep depression. I'm glad I was able to move on, but it was extremely difficult.

@Cigarguy That's one of the drawbacks of sites like these. You have to everything with a grain of salt.

@robbie2499 oh I do it used to kind of bother me especially because they really acted like they were concerned about me and my kiddos but then nothing so whatever

@bijouxbroussard

@Vin53 Basically.

@SomeMichGuy he only talks to me because I’m the only one that humors him, he’s overbearing.

I should’ve never been so nice to someone who isn’t used to it. Just know that it’s a build up of things and this was the last straw 😂

@SomeMichGuy also he repeats himself.

@Pressure <now you should say it again>

@Tumbleweed Office might be closed, but the people who work there are about.

hmm

@SomeMichGuy My landlord is female & cool af & I honestly don't see her doing that. If it were them, I'd definitely know because I never told them I got a cat!

@Tumbleweed Hmmm.

Odd all around.

Were the locks changed after you got rid of your houseguest?

@LordBarbossa Which one?

@robbie2499 exactly