TinyViolins · 31-35, M
It seems kinda cruel to force a thing into existence when the world is so broken and dysfunctional. I'm basically dooming someone into suffering for my own satisfaction, with only the vague hopes that things might be better one day as a justification
I get that people have love to give and maybe even a nurturing instinct, but there are plenty of other people and animals that can use that type of attention as well. I'm perfectly content having only fur babies. My life doesn't feel any less full because of it
I get that people have love to give and maybe even a nurturing instinct, but there are plenty of other people and animals that can use that type of attention as well. I'm perfectly content having only fur babies. My life doesn't feel any less full because of it
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
I don't want to give up being the protagonist of my own life. When you have children they become the protagonists. You always have to consider them first. Parents make endless sacrifices for their children, I don't want that.
@PinkMoon Ikr.....like who the hell knows who Napoleon's mom is? nobody
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
@OrionInTheNight That's a great point.
PEACH4LIFE · 46-50, F
My oldest son is 30. I asked him and he said the world was such a cruel place and he didn't want to bring any kids in it. I have 2 by my daughter that's 12 and 8. I guess I won't have anymore grandchildren. 😔
bijouxbroussard · F
I’m 65. I lost the one child I had and never had another. If motherhood occurs, it will have to happen in my next life, now. 😏
Gingerbreadspice · F
Playing with my doll and pram at 8 years old, I always thought I would have kids when I grew up. Then I grew up and life didn’t go to plan. I became an auntie at the age of 33 and I knew for absolute certainty that I didn’t want to have kids after that.
KarenisKenziesmum · 51-55, F
I had two daughters while still in my teens. One of them is a mother of four herself now. I became a grandmother at 41.
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
I've been disabled and in constant pain for 15 years. I can hardly take care of myself much less bring a new life into this world.
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
My wife and I had 6 kids so I guess this question doesn't apply to me.
HumanEarth · F
I did, I had 9 kids
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
unaffordable
JohnOlinger81 · 41-45, M
Im not a cut out for fatherhood im already an uncle im okay with that
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Among other reasons I said the last time the question was asked, I've never been in a life situation when even thinking about having kids would make any sense.
Reflection2 · M
I believe I am not worthy of it and also, relationships are so scary now a days.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Because I already have four.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
@Ambroseguy80 I came to say I already have one. Lol Jinx you owe me a beer!
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@NeuroticByNature this is the second time this week I’ve been jinxed!
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
uh oh what's going with that? @Ambroseguy80
My eggs are hard boiled. 🥚
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@OlderSometimesWiser you could make egg salad 😏
@Ambroseguy80 Don’t think adding mayo would help create life. 🤔
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@OlderSometimesWiser can’t say I didn’t try. 😂
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
I already have one.
I don't really want to go through IVF just to give STBX a child or two...
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HumanEarth · F
I was just opposite, I never wanted a family because I was afraid I would become my father or get married to someone like my father (that I did do with 1st marriage) and hurt kids and spouse.
I'm so glad that never happened, but that was always in the back of my mind and I was sacred
I'm so glad that never happened, but that was always in the back of my mind and I was sacred
@HumanEarth I always planned to be a single parent for pretty much the same reason. I didn't want any men that I might meet to abuse my children.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
I got kid's
Lilymoon · F
My husband never really wanted kids
JohnOlinger81 · 41-45, M
@Lilymoon Im like your husband parenting is hard I rather be responsible for myself much easier
WandererTony · 56-60, M
Because i dont have enough energy left to raise them.
An afterthought- "them" can also be read as "it" 😑
An afterthought- "them" can also be read as "it" 😑
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Doctors said I couldn't
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
That's way too much responsibility
YoMomma ·
I only want one..
nonsensiclesnail · F
In this economy??!!
JohnOlinger81 · 41-45, M
@nonsensiclesnail the 90s was a better time for parents economy wise
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I don't wanna be tied down or broke forever lol
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
I would if I had the money and/or the power otherwise it's like you know 🎶 welcome to the machine pink Floyd type deal.
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
Why do you ask🫤😒
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
@tobynshorty Deep state population control thing...they want you to resolve them of all responsibility maybe?
KungFuVixen · F
I choose 36 years in the Navy over having a family
FeralMindset · M
I’d have another five in an instant
LemonWorld · F
I do want kids though 😭 i want at least 6
because I don't like them
SaorUladh · 26-30, M
Who said I don't?
ElwoodBlues · M
Because we already have two!
Punches · 46-50, F
dont want mo more
jackson55 · M
2 was enough.
UndeadSona · F
1) it's my DNA I own it
2) economy
2) economy
JanBos2 · 61-69, M
People are afraid of responsibility but also: afraid to change their daily life.
I can't be bothered. Call me selfish.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Not the type.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
My parents were horrible people. I knew at an early age I never wanted to be married or be anyone's father.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
If you are ready to fulfil a life long responsibility then you do want to have kids
TexChik · F
Two is sufficient, three is now impossible.
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
Because kids are annoyin
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Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
Because I’m not passionate about having kids.
MougyWolf · 36-40, M
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nobodyishome · 31-35, F
🙏🙏🙏