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Most men i came across are very self-important and egoistic and also lie a lot !

They make me feel maybe all men r like that only. I feel like even good ones are pretending due to them 😭
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
You can complain about rocks that they are hard. But, will the laws of nature hear you and make them soft?
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@NativePortlander1970 many women do have jealousy problem but not all...and also depends, some have it more and some less. Only 5% seem to have it worst
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@NativePortlander1970 maybe u met good women too....
If I were as obsessed with this topic as you are, I’d be looking at myself and the changes I need to make rather than blaming external sources for my problems. You really do seem to need some kind of professional help.
The truth about romantic partners, men or women, is this: if someone is having the same experience, time after time, with different people, they need to first consider what similarities are attracting them. Because they are the one common denominator in all of their choices. 🥺
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@bijouxbroussard i think they were all overly-nice/supportive at first. Now, when men show kindness to me here, i am not able to trust. I feel i might be not trusting good ones too.
The second you see a red flag get rid of them. There are good ones somewhere. Probably hiding in a cave from society.
Bleak · 36-40, F
This is called generalization.
Philth · 46-50, M
"My brother's the best chef in New York" says just about every New York taxi driver I've seen on travel programmes. I'm afraid that this is representative of Western culture, especially in densely populated areas - if you don't big yourself up, you will sink the the bottom. In respect of the dynamic between men and women, men who are quiet and reserved are frequently seen by women as weak, uninteresting losers and therefore quickly placed in the 'friend zone'.
Philth · 46-50, M
@sahi81 is that actually like, or just say they like? 🤣
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Philth one of my friend when i was in college, she said she will marry someone like our principal sir bcuz he was introverted, kinda quiet type. She even said she will marry someone chubby, she feels little chubby herself even when she is normal weight.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Philth other girl i heard finds introverted decent...
pdockal · 56-60, M
Your NOT meeting the right men
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@pdockal i think i was looking for love in others which i never got from my parents . It's hard to believe love even exists after negative experiences with people
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@pdockal idk how to love myself....
pdockal · 56-60, M
@sahi81

You need somebody to guide you
But only you can figure it out
Where are you finding these vain egotistical dudes? Maybe you need a new hangout
@sahi81 sorry 😬 you cant always know sometimes.. some people
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish i feel even good ones r pretending... or maybe they r genuiely being good, idk 😔
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish it's so scary
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
India.

That explains your dilemma
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@WintaTheAngle That's what i thought too but i had similar experiences with western men too online ! 😭 Men from US, UK, CANADA, etc, not all of them but it's hard to believe in good ones too after many lies, bad behaviours or betaryals by men who seemed good at first.

Maybe men everywhere in this world are same at their core!
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
@sahi81 Or maybe it’s just you
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@WintaTheAngle could be.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
This again? How about appreciating men for once?
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul not able to...😔
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sahi81 Well, you probably need to try.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul yes.
smiler2012 · 61-69
@sahi81 🤔you should never stereotype there are some very decent honest men about maybe few and far between but they do exist
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@smiler2012 i never came across any good men, even if i did, i am not able to trust them due to my past experiences 😭

I met decent men but they were also very egoistic !
zeggle · 61-69, M
You are probably right. But! I know a girl who tells more lies than mark williams sells pork pies.
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@DunningKruger sry, i didn't understand what u mean.
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