Most men i came across are very self-important and egoistic and also lie a lot !

@YoMomma Fun and attention grabbing places seem to have such people more. Even places where there is no accountability, such as toxic enviornments where there is groupism, where people around them hang out with same type of people who enable bad behaviours.

@sahi81 well if you already know then why go there?

@YoMomma i am not intentionally going there..... it happens often to me subconcioulsy i beleive

@YoMomma so i am looking in decent places but they seem hard to find and i am not able to trust any men due to my past experiences

@sahi81 the other question is what do you want the guy for?? What are your intentions in finding some guy?

@YoMomma have a relationship 😭

@sahi81 awww

@YoMomma some men seem good in good places but i am not able to trust them due to my past experiences. I talked to some men who seemed decent and they were really good to me so i wasn't able to trust them. It felt like love-bombing to me, they were overly supportive which was suspicious, it was just like the toxic men in my past showed me love at first stages just to betary me later, so i wasn't able to trust the good ones i met in good places !

@sahi81 sorry 😬 you cant always know sometimes.. some people

@YoMomma i feel even good ones r pretending... or maybe they r genuiely being good, idk 😔

@YoMomma it's so scary