Do you have friends who think it's cool to text you anytime of the night they feel like, but if you text them past 8pm they get upset.

Nope because I have a do not disturb set on my phone after 9pm.

Anyone with my number or socials can text me. But whether or not I care that's another thing. 😂


Different people have different circumstances and needs. For example a friend to my boyfriend's has a 3 year old. If his phone calls after 8 when his son is put to bed. He'd be upset if his son wakes up.
That's understandable.

Or someone who has to leave for work super early. But normally these people keep their phone on mute to prevent that.

I have friends that I have spoken with at great length in the middle of the night. I work full time nights so I welcome the interaction. When I didn't work nights I wouldn't like any calls past 11 pm as work started early. I often rose at 5 am. If someone needs me, the time they text is irrelevant. I am here for those I care for and I love anytime.

Nope. I keep the ringer on my phone off, and I let the phone sleep when I am not actively using it. If and when I feel like looking at my calls and texts, I do, and usually delete them immediately. I do all of my emailing and DM's on my laptop...and it never makes noise.

i never reply to text messages and hardly ever check them either. I have over 50 unread texts on my phone and no motivation to check them. Everyone i know is told this, yet they still send them.
I also never text anyone or call anyone, so I wouldnt know how friends would react to it.

Not really, I’ve told them if it’s an emergency it’s ok but if it’s not an emergency don’t expect a reply the next time even if it’s an emergency.
I’m not a fan of texting anyways, I use my phone to talk on and they also know that.

Nah, that is very weird. I can text anyone at any time and they can text me at any time. I'd get annoyed with a phone call bc that actually creates a disturbance but a text is so innocuous the person would have to be a Karen to be upset over it.

My friends know that I turn my phone off when I'm ready to stop getting texts or calls. If it's an emergence, they can call my wife.

It's simple ..I will text back when I can

{@musicman] 🤷‍♂️cannot see what the beef and big deal a case of do as i say and nolt text me late on but not as i actually do

My phone is permanently on silent

Not anymore.

Nope because those aren't friends. Those are users and i cut all of those people off.

Its my family who gives a F n it pisses me off n yes they know it

I rub it in their fucking faces until they're not my friends anymore. It's really the only way ppl learn, or at least learn not to bother me.

I have a strict 9pm rule for most people, except for my BFF, because of the hardships she's going through being technically homeless, currently sleeping in a run down 70's era travel trailer, and addicted to crack and severe seizure disorder. However she is voluntarily signed up on a waiting list for inpatient rehab because she wants off the shit, it's a 90 day program that will help her find housing once she completes it, and help her with disability benefits for her seizures.