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Is anyone else surprised by how many older people are on this website?

I'm curious, if you're older, what makes SW more enticing than other social media websites like twitter, reddit etc.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Most of us "older' people were the ones who helped build the original site, experience project. When they were building this site and EP was being decommissioned we were invited to join here. Mamy of us have stayed because we have built friendships wirh others here.
pride49 · 31-35, M
@Fungirlmmm I was on ep, how long was ep on for?
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Who you calling old?
Carissimi · 70-79, F
We were not *that* old when we were on EP, but people have a tendency to age as they live longer, and we migrated here when EP shut down.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
It's smaller and has a more intimate feel. You can be fairly anonymous here, you don't need to provide identifying information.

There is a nice selection of people from all over the world, although it is dominated by Americans and Westerners.

This place is pretty good for allowing alternative and conservative opinions, and that is not true on Reddit, and while it may be true on twitter now, it certainly wasn't the case for many years.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@LeopoldBloom [quote]You don't think it's a problem when actual Nazis are given a public platform? This allows them to reach more people who are susceptible to these ideas but otherwise wouldn't have encountered them.[/quote]

I don't, no. Why are they targeted as being so dangerous but we allow all kinds of other bad influences all over social media? What about the Scientologists? The incels? Gangster rappers promoting a life of crime? Anti-fa? MLMs and cults sucking in good, hard working people trying to make a living?

You think whatever "Nazis" that exist in this country have a chance against the NSA, the FBI, the MSM, and the entire intelligence community? It's overblown and is being used to frighten and divide people.

[quote]If I owned Twitter, I wouldn't ban people who made fun of me. But as I said, Musk is entitled to ban anyone he wants for any reason. Under the old management, people were banned for hate speech (and that doesn't mean "saying mean things about liberals") calling for violence, and spreading false medical information.[/quote]

If you dived into the media that was released in the "Twitter Files" you would see that the old regime was just as capricious when it came to throttling and banning thoughts, and individuals that did not promote the narrative around Trump or the mRNA vaccines.

[quote]Facebook was great when I joined in 2008. I connected with people I hadn't seen in years. The feed was mostly things people were doing, along with a forum for discussing current events. It started to deteriorate around 2015 when it became more focused on ad revenue, and the feed changed from chronological to curated based on your interests and engagement. So now, it's just a few people I know who are on it 24/7, ads, and clickbait. It's unfortunate because the early Facebook will never be replaced. It's not like everyone I know will magically decide to migrate to MeWe or Mastodon or Tribel or any other platform. It's like an anthill that's destroyed in a rainstorm - all of the ants are still there, but the organization and connections are gone.
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Do you remember the internet before all these stupid social media companies took over? It was a patch work of individuals promoting their interests and hobbies. It was very interesting, cool and fun. You had a laundry list of sites to go to, that you visited on a regular basis.

Now everyone is congregated into these large social media sites. Very convenient if you wanted to control the information being disseminated to the masses.
@SumKindaMunster Yes, everyone's congregated into the large social media sites, and Republicans want to do away with net neutrality to make sure those are the only sites you can access easily.

You should listen to the "Behind the Bastards" series on Andrew Tate. I don't know any teenage boys, so I had no idea of the influence he had on that demographic. Listen to that and then tell me that he "didn't have a chance" against the MSM.

We shouldn’t tolerate the intolerant. I don’t put Nazis or people like Tate in the same category as MLM or Scientology. It’s absurd to equate them just because you don’t agree with them.
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Fairydust · F
I’ve been on EP and SW for over 10 years now.
Some of us older ones, have circumstances that keep us isolated and coming online is a way to interact with others, when we maybe just want to be alone but feel people are there in our own little world too.

❤️🥰✨
SW-User
@Fairydust you are not alone Hun. I'm always here
Fairydust · F
@SW-User

thank you 😊
helenS · 36-40, F
"EP is getting worse every day!"
"It's not EP dickhead!"
helenS · 36-40, F
@LordShadowfire As a child I wouldn't have recognized it. All I saw were to old men who were grumpy [u]and[/u] funny at the same time.
@helenS Jim's humor was subtle enough to go over the heads of the young ones, but if you go back and watch the show now, you'll wonder how you could possibly have missed it. He was that good.
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LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Age is just a number and should not define a user.

That would be like me saying "is anyone surprised by how many young people come to this site versus Twitter, Reddit ect"
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@LilPrincess *gets a boner*
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
We came from EP & this place became like a replacement home lol
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
Some are pervert I remember when I first joined ep than on here i was just 14
Chaoshead · 22-25, M
@Mountainlady16 Definitely. I joined EP when I was 13 and there were a ton of creeps.
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
@Chaoshead how old are you
Chaoshead · 22-25, M
@Mountainlady16 I'm 23 now.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I am one of those old people.

Twitter has no allure to me at all. It seems a bit silly.

I have looked at reddit, and I used to spend some time there. I might return in the future.

But unlike reddit, on here I have the experience of actually getting to know people. Even if I am not "friends" with someone or exchange private messages , different users here appear as well-defined personalities. I do not feel that way on reddit. And so, this seems more personal and more "human".

And.....there are other old people here! 😄
chrisCA · M
Different social media sites serve different purposes, at least for me.
I discuss things here, that I would never share on Facebook.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
We got run off of the other ones.
We have circled the wagons and are making a last stand here.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Doesn't feel as dominated by influencers and the narcissistic feeling the need to post everything from a photo of the food they are about to eat to sharing selfies with BFF coming out of the loo. Well, maybe, some of the latter for a segment. And why should it be surprised that we have eclectic interests? Are we supposed to go sit in our rooms and vegetate?
Ynotisay · M
It allows for context, unlike Twitter, and anonymity unlike Facebook. Reddit is the closest but, depending on the group, that place allows for some twisted individuals to coalesce.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
@Ynotisay Good points. Context & nuance are important to us old fogies, and what originally drew me to social media was the opportunity to be anonymous yet open about sexual issues. Ironically, young uns here lecture you for being verbose when you add a little context and nuance -- but at least you are allowed to.
Ynotisay · M
@dancingtongue You make a good point about context meeting brevity. I think older people appreciate how the sausage gets made. Younger people tend to want the sausage right now.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
@Ynotisay Unfortunately that applies to history, how cultural opinions formed, or anything else as well, so they are doomed to relive it when it becomes "trendy" again.
acpguy · C
I feel it is because Twitter and others like it are full of snowflakes corrupted by the liberal controlled education from the mid seventies to the present. There is not much intelligent coming from that ilk.
ABCDEF7 · M
I am surprised by how many younger people are on this website. I'm curious, if you're younger, what makes SW more enticing than other social media websites like twitter, reddit etc..
CestManan · 46-50, F
As this forum has no central theme, it is bound to attract all demographs.

The good thing is that anyone can jump in and chat. The downside is one is not going to learn much.

To answer the question though - big websites are too crowded. Plus they are more likely to breathe down your neck trying to advertise.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@CestManan There are plenty of people here with expertise or experience in various fields. Anyone can learn from them just by asking. But I think people are here mostly to socialise, and perhaps argue. A bit like 'real' life.
SW-User
The circus atmosphere seems more appealing
akindheart · 61-69, F
i have been on a long time. i have friends here.
spjennifer · 56-60, T
Was on EP also, EP was more open ruled about sexual subjects (Which is what doomed it) but I find the relative anonymity of this place fun. Not on Twitter, Reddit or any others.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@spjennifer Tumblr has tried that too
spjennifer · 56-60, T
@zonavar68 Tumblr didn't have much choice but to remove all so-called "adult content" as they are part of their Frankenstein parent "Verizon Oath" and by banning it, have lost probably 80% of their users and become irrelevant in the process, apparently there was a lot of child porn on Tumblr though I never saw any...
Tracos · 51-55, M
what is older?
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@Tracos Older is anyone older than the person saying it. 68 in my case.
SW-User
Not sure I’m “older” but I’m a lot older than you. This is not my favourite website that I feel at home but I will not go anywhere near Twitter with a barge pole and Reddit is difficult to read. I like Quora but I just read there. I love FB, Instagram, TikTok and YouTube I would be lost without them.
@SW-User It does have some subject matter experts on it. I've just noticed a change over the past few years. It used to be more of a community.
softie · 31-35, M
@SW-User Does anyone remember Misterpoll? It reminded me of EP.
SW-User
@softie Don’t think I’ve heard of it.
But of course you realize that older people are mostly here to provide advice to younger ones, right??
carpediem · 61-69, M
Funny, I was thinking “shouldn’t these kids be playing video games in their room?”
They may well give insight and different perspectives which is not a bad thing.
Mardrae · F
Why does it bother you so much that “ older” people are on here? You think we should all give up social media when we hit middle age, and go play bingo and knit while looking for a retirement home maybe? What’s the cutoff age for social media anyway, according to you?
Chaoshead · 22-25, M
@Mardrae I'm sorry if my words were misinterpreted. I have absolutely zero problem with older people being on this (or any) platform. I'm legitimately curious why this site might be more welcoming than others.
Mardrae · F
@Chaoshead I’m “older” and I’m on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Reddit, Snapchat, Quora, Simterest, TikTok, , Pinterest, and anywhere else I feel like joining. I have no clue why you would think that a site or people would kick someone off after a certain age. Why on earth wouldn’t they not welcome us?
DavidScott · 51-55, M
Cause old people are senile and can't tell how bad this site is
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I wasn't as old on the site's predecessor EP. This is the closest thing to the format and has some of the same community. There really isnt any site that's exactly comparable to the companionship and entertainment I find here.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Starcrossed Can you remember what year EP closed? Or for that matter, what year it opened? I have a feeling that between EP and here, I have been here for longer than I realize! 😂
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@DrWatson erhm I think 2007-2016.
Eklipse · F
You forgot FB.
CestManan · 46-50, F
@Eklipse I think the world done forgot about FB. 😄
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@CestManan Is it still going? I thought it was TikTok now.
When you're 22-25 most of the world's population can't be anything but older! :)

SW is more enticing if you like answers more interesting than what's possible in a Tweet.
There is at least the potential to create conversations - even though it doesn't happen all that often.
The variety of different types of people
and the membership (larger than AnswerMug).
I used to like Quora, but the program funnels one into ever more restrictive questions. I tried various strategies, but it always dropped to a narrower band of topics. I got bored and left.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
I'm 54 - is that a problem for you?
SW-User
Why are so many young people on SW platform? Shouldn't y'all be in college studying or out working so when y'all get our age y'all can retire and play like us, otherwise y'all will just stay playing and not contributing to y'all country. 🤣 🤔
SW-User
What makes you think we only visit this site. Some of us have plenty of time to visit a plethora of social meda sites. Those of us who are really old. And retired.
helenS · 36-40, F
@SW-User In fact SW is the only "social" site which I visit. I don't even know the difference between "facebook" and "twitter".
DDonde · 31-35, M
I like the community here.
i like long form contact,, long reads are allowed here tldr is not built
in
I also like NOT being "verified" the old EP was anony and this one still has that as an option
i can present without concern some professional or family member will encounter me here

many are fr om the old EP and friends there are sometimes still here
to be blunt i stay here to stay in touch with minds I enjoy

find the popularity of teeny short twit and such to be, unsatisfying
Its not surprising.
It's surprising that you think that's it's surprising.
Wiseacre · F
Twitter and Reddit have 20-30 yr olds..this place is more laid back!
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Wiseacre Reddit is fully of Randy rooters chasing redhead unicorns apparently
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
I'm not only old, I'm stupid. and I can't understand all that stuff you mentioned. In my day somebody else made those decisions for me
Wiseacre · F
@atlantic59 stop denigrating urself
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@Wiseacre you are right. The pendulum swings between acceptance and loathing
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@acpguy aww....thanks for understanding so easily🙂
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
I identify as 25🤨
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
We programmed 4, 6 and 8 bit microprocessors way before you were born, so why the surprise we are here? I find Twitter and Reddit boring, but they’re full of people my age and older just like the rest of the internet.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
The pancakes!
caesar7 · 61-69, M
I was here since the beginning and before that with EP. I find it very user-friendly and met very nice people here for the most part.
Jlhzfromep · M
Just migrated from EP and didn’t leave

What makes this more exciting that other sites for younger people?
SW-User
I have accounts on others and the same question goes out to you. 🤔
softie · 31-35, M
I was a member on EP but never posted. I read stories on there.
ButterRobot · 51-55, M
Nostalgia. I was on EP from 2007 when I was around 30 odd
TeirdalinFirefall · 31-35, M
I'm on twitter, reddit, and also on etc as well.
SW-User
They got lost looking for knitter’s digest
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
We were young when we started on here lol

 
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