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Is anyone else trying to quit smoking for the new year?

I’m planning on attempting to quit again as my New Year’s resolution, but I’m pretty nervous 😬
twiigss · M
I can give you some advice on this, because I went to a smoking cessation class. So first thing you want to do is, mark on your calendar what your quit date will be. See if you can find support groups as well. Now, there's a bunch of things you can use to aid you in quitting. There's a 2 and 4mg lozenge. Gum, patch, and Chantix. These are your quit aids.

When I quit smoking, I received a months worth of the 2mg lozenge for free since it was the class so that something you'd have to pay for, unless you happen to find a smoking cessation class. So then all you gotta do from there is follow the instructions for the quit aid you choose to use. As an example, so on the quit date you stop smoking cigarettes 100%. Now, when I got the 2mg lozenge the first week, anytime you get a craving to smoke, pop in a lozenge for 10 minutes.

Because I would go out on the front porch to smoke, I would go outside, pop in the lozenge for 10 minutes, as if I'd smoked a cigarette and then go back in. That still wasn't at 100% working. So I took a piece of paper and rolled up a tube, so that I could have the action as if I was still smoking, even though I wasn't. But I was able to trick my brain, while doing the lozenge. The second week of not smoking, do the morning lozenge but try to skip the next craving, next craving after that, okay do a lozenge. Third week, try to skip morning craving and the next, third craving do a lozenge. By the end of the third week I had found myself no longer needing the lozenges and I had successfully quit smoking.

I don't vape or smoke anything. 100% smoke free since March 24th 2015. That was my quit date. You can do it!!

UPDATE: Also, one thing you want to do is, stay away from social interactions where you go to smoke. So say you go to the bar friday nights and have a few smokes. Or wherever it is you might go to have a smoke, you have to change those routines because being in those places, could cause you to want to unconsciously light up. That was another tip from the instructor.
@twiigss awesome... i quit because of shear will power...that is the most important tool whether getting outside help or quitting cold turkey as i did... i was surprised i was able to do it... i was addicted to those things so bad. i would smoke while i shaved... i even smoked in the shower when getting ready for going clubbing...lol yes it can be done...i found a way🤣 ....
kylee1992 · F
@twiigss thank you so much!
twiigss · M
@kylee1992 You're very welcome! I will help out anyone on this matter where I can because I went through this and the instructor in the class, his first words were, it is so easy to quit, you just have to know how. And all that information I gave ya there, is the basic run down. So I hope it helps :)
helenS · 36-40, F
Day #3 will be the hardest. Cravings will come in waves. One wave will last for about 3 minutes. You just have to survive the next wave. Those waves will occur less frequently over time, and after a couple of months they will have almost disappeared.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@helenS Same I just wanted to intense exercise 2-3 times a week

And it comes to me by itself. My body "Mmnhhh we need to move that ass"
helenS · 36-40, F
@Queendragonfly Exactly – there was a strong "Get that ass moved" feeling!
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@helenS I'm also aware how much so sit on my ass so when that voice speaks, I act instantly. 😂
Entwistle · 56-60, M
I quit nearly 3 years ago. It was one of the easiest things I've ever done.
The reason I found it to easy? I didn't make a big deal of it,I didn't fear or rejoice at giving up..I gave up and decided to seldom think about it..and it worked.
Don't worry about giving up..just do it and move on.
@Entwistle same... i thought it was gonna be tough but it was easier than i thought. just gotta have the right mind set
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
If you are planning to smoke your usual way and then quit cold turkey January 1st Here's the new years resolution you are signing up for:

- You have to endure at least [c=BF0000]15 minutes [/c]of a craving before it fades off. If you smoke 10 cigarettes a day that means 15 x10 minutes of endurance. For [c=005E2F]1[/c] day. So you will have to repeat this every day. No failure.

While feeling like absolute crap. And if you go cold turkey. Here's the list of symptoms.

- You might get head ache, nausea, yoget mood swings, impatient, irritated, feel extremely fatigued and energy-less, you might lose or gain appetite, insomnia, restless syndromes in your legs etc, you might get stomach cramps, aches and cold sweat and puke and shake and feel [u]really sick. [/u]

My dad quit cold turkey. He puked cold sweat and shaked with aches and pain and was really really sick for three days. He felt like he was dying , but he endured through those three days and after that , he was no longer addicted to cigarettes and never had a cigarette since. This is a very brutal detoxing.

There's a milder approach that I think most people should do. And that is dosing down and include setbacks for a set period of time.

For example. My boyfriend reduced down to two cigarettes a couple of weeks before he could reduce down to 1 and finally to 0. He gave himself a certain time frame that also allowed setbacks. Let's say two months. So if we had a fight one day or there was some horrible news or he was having a breakdown, he could smoke 1 cigarette and still be holding his promise to himself and not have failed himself.
Which is the most [u]important[/u] part


The worst you can do is sign up for something you realistically isn't equipped to handle. And fail yourself and your promise to yourself.

The best is to adapt the process to the time and endurance level you know for 100% you will manage. And go from there. From one small success to the next til you reach the big one.

If you feel nervous I think you have aimed a goal higher than you realistically are capable of succeeding.

Just food for thought.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@kylee1992 Also a my boyfriend ate carrots every time he had a craving 😂
I even made a painting of him holding a carrot to honor his willpower 😂
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@kylee1992 He liked to hold something instead of a cigarette and to taste something
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@kylee1992 But yeah the cold turkey symptoms can be awful, you're detoxing your body similar way drug addicts do in rehab. Your body will react.
ArtieKat · M
I totally agree with @beermeplease. I have quit for years on end and I know that it's all down to willpower - you have to [i][b]really[/b][/i] want to quit. The brutal truth is that I've never seen the point of replacing one addiction/habit with another.
helenS · 36-40, F
@ArtieKat Becoming pregnant can be helpful.
ArtieKat · M
@helenS Biologically very difficult for me.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Don't quit cold turkey.
Your body and mind are linked to a drug dependency.

Quitting anything cold turkey affects your body and mind in a different way. Its not a clean break, because whatever you quit this way will just be replaced by another dependency.

Work out the number of Cigarettes you smoke in a day.
Keep that exact number in one place.
As you smoke leave a slightly longer stub than you normally do and leave them in the ashtray.
This way you can see your 'progress'...or not as you go.

Same is true for any habit.
Booze; chocolate; weed; sugar; etc.
You're no going to accomplish it in a week, it will take time to ween your body's need off the substance You're addicted to.
@Picklebobble2 i quit smoking cold turkey just fine...i was a minimum 1 pack a day smoker...2 on the weekends sometimes...i tried weening myself off but that never worked. it was all or nothing...quit 15 years ago and have never even had a drag
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@beermeplease Maybe so but what did you replace your addiction with ?
@Picklebobble2 nothing...maybe ate more junk food and gained 40 pounds...but quickly got my act together and lost it. i've always been a drinker and i didn't drink any more...i'm a weed smoker maybe 1 or 2 times a week. if i never smoked weed again i'd be ok with it. i like my weekend drinks...
saintsong · 41-45, F
I want to quit on New Years day too! All of this advice on your thread is helpful....Maybe secretly I could quit cold turkey this week without telling my family to get ahead of the game! No matter how much I absolutely love smoking, I really need to quit urgently. God bless you on your success on quitting, may it go well for you!
@saintsong if i could just put a little push in you all i gotta say is "just do it" like the nike ad. i did and so can you...but please do it sooner than later as your mind has you thinking about it. i've seen how my mom passed and it wasn't fun...i'd love to know how your journey goes if you do decide to quit and i'm always open to encouraging words if you want help 🫂
kylee1992 · F
@saintsong thank you! I’m in the same boat, I love smoking but I need to quit.
SW-User
If your mind is made up to quit it's a breeze. Same with drinking. Wish you well
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
I quit April 7 2013 cold Turkey in house full of smokers
@HumanEarth feb 20 2008 for me... my dad had something to do with it...kept putting it in my brain i'll regret it one day...unfortunately i couldn't do the same for my mom 😥
Theyitis · 36-40, M
Yay you can do it!!! Will be good for you 🙂
RileyLandS · 41-45, M
rephrase your statement, don't say try or attempt.
say "your name" (not I) will quit smoking on January 1.
when your mind is right, your actions will follow.
good luck!
please just do it. i did 15 years ago cold turkey. best decision i ever made...unfortunately smoking is what killed my mom, and it was not a nice death....every time i see a smoker i think about how they will one day die from it. a massive heart attack would be welcoming compared to how my mom died. i wish you all the best and if i could convince one other person to quit then i served some purpose in life...
kylee1992 · F
@beermeplease my lungs are already so bad so the health stuff does worry me. Thanks!
@kylee1992 you've got this.... i'll support you in any which i can 🫂
saintsong · 41-45, F
I want to quit on New Years day too! All of this advice on your thread is helpful....Maybe secretly I could quit cold turkey this week without telling my family to get ahead of the game! No matter how much I absolutely love smoking, I really need to quit urgently. God bless you on your success on quitting, may it go well for you!
496sbc · 36-40, M
U can do it. Smoking is bad. Un less its tire smoke
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Just don't buy them anymore
Dawgsfan3 · 41-45, M
You can do this!
SW-User
I don't know of anyone who smokes through a cold with the coughing and the sneezing - so pray you get sick. I'm serious! That's how I quit over 15 yrs ago.
kylee1992 · F
@SW-User I still smoke when I’m sick 😷
dubkebab · 51-55, M
@kylee1992 Me too,a pack a day through covid and all. I don't see my self tapering off...just full cold turkey.
If I even try quitting. but I'm getting pretty sick of it.
Good luck. I quit in 2001. After 3 days they say the physical dependency is past. Only psychological dependency remains. I didn't do it cold turkey. I cut back daily for over two weeks.
kylee1992 · F
@OldGrandDad that’s a good strategy
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
You can do it
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Its a worthwhile effort. Remember, every single cigarette you dont have is good for your health.. And saves you in taxes..😷
No - but it might happen as an unintended side effect of something else I want to do...
Like2play · M
Took me 8 tries before I could quit.
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@Like2play yeah, it takes several attempts for sure
kylee1992 · F
@Like2play I feel like I’ll be like that too…
Like2play · M
@kylee1992 just keep trying.
Azlotto · M
I quit cigarettes and coffee at the same time a long time ago.

This New Year’s resolution is to stop drinking beer.
@Azlotto and explore vodka and weed once in a while
Azlotto · M
@beermeplease I don't like anything stronger than beer and I do like weed, but I get drug tested for work.
@Azlotto that's messed up. they still do that nowadays? it's amazing how you can get totally shitfaced on alhohol and it be out of your system a few hours later...but still be hung asf... but smoke weed days ago and it still shows up in your system..... glad weed is legal in my country

 
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