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ZedsLeppelin2 · 56-60, F
@eerie Your heart breaking over someone you thought loved you and vice versa, is what all of us old people have gone through while at your age.
Both of my sons (20 yrs apart) had their hearts broken by their 1st "love" when they were both 15 years old..and oh man it's heartbreaking for a mom to see their happy son(s) at 15 yrs trying not to cry over a girl that broke up with them, where you as their mother KNOW that they'll eventually get over her, but also having to bite your tongue about YOUR feelings of the girl who broke your 15 year old son's heart, to instead be respectful of your sonS feelings who FEEL that she was "the ONE", knowing that she was NOT the one lol.
My eldest son whose heart was broken at 15,is now living his best life being married with 3 boys of his own, and my 20 yr old son who got his heart broken at 15 as well, is now living his best life living away at college playing a sport he loves....thus having no interest at all in having a girlfriend to tie him down while living his best life.
Find what truly inspires YOU to live your best life at your young age, instead of wasting your time on some a*hole who doesn't get you.
Both of my sons (20 yrs apart) had their hearts broken by their 1st "love" when they were both 15 years old..and oh man it's heartbreaking for a mom to see their happy son(s) at 15 yrs trying not to cry over a girl that broke up with them, where you as their mother KNOW that they'll eventually get over her, but also having to bite your tongue about YOUR feelings of the girl who broke your 15 year old son's heart, to instead be respectful of your sonS feelings who FEEL that she was "the ONE", knowing that she was NOT the one lol.
My eldest son whose heart was broken at 15,is now living his best life being married with 3 boys of his own, and my 20 yr old son who got his heart broken at 15 as well, is now living his best life living away at college playing a sport he loves....thus having no interest at all in having a girlfriend to tie him down while living his best life.
Find what truly inspires YOU to live your best life at your young age, instead of wasting your time on some a*hole who doesn't get you.
everyoneknows · 31-35, T
get away from that psycho asap
Montanaman · M
@everyoneknows October, 2019...
everyoneknows · 31-35, T
@Montanaman lol idk why i see old posts 😅🤷🏼♂️ oh well my reply is still valid anywya
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
While I have a lot of empathy for you on the panic attack thing, you are your own person. He doesn't control you. You're being controlled by your emotions.
You can live without him. Clearly, you can't live with him, either.
Cut the chord, eerie. Get some support. Maybe an Emotions Anonymous meeting, a 12-step program in dealing with emotions. There will also be people who understand there. A community revolving around sharing your issues wouldn't be the worst thing in the world, would it?
In any case, what do you see in the near future, if things continue like this?
You can live without him. Clearly, you can't live with him, either.
Cut the chord, eerie. Get some support. Maybe an Emotions Anonymous meeting, a 12-step program in dealing with emotions. There will also be people who understand there. A community revolving around sharing your issues wouldn't be the worst thing in the world, would it?
In any case, what do you see in the near future, if things continue like this?
ZedsLeppelin2 · 56-60, F
YOU are allowing yourself to continue to be mentally/emotionally abused by your ex due to you clearly having low self esteem issues :(
You're 18-21 yrs old living in the greatest country, having so many opportunities to achieve YOUR goals in YOUR life....so don't waste your young adult life on a guy who's clearly NOT INTO YOU.
Every decade/generation of teenagers/young adults have BEEN THERE at your young age of THINKING we were "in love" at 18-21 with a dickhead boyfriend/girlfriend....whereas as you get older and wiser, you too will look back and cringe thinking to yourself "OH MAN WHAT WAS I THINKING dating that loser" lol :) So hang in there....NO ONE is worth taking your own life :(
I was 33 yrs old when I started dating my future husband (we were casual friends for years via us having mutual friends while in our early 20's/early 30's) and we went on to get married while in our 30's, and have 3 great kids together.
I always tell my young adult kids, that IF you want to hear God laugh, tell Him YOUR plans.
:) :) :)
You're 18-21 yrs old living in the greatest country, having so many opportunities to achieve YOUR goals in YOUR life....so don't waste your young adult life on a guy who's clearly NOT INTO YOU.
Every decade/generation of teenagers/young adults have BEEN THERE at your young age of THINKING we were "in love" at 18-21 with a dickhead boyfriend/girlfriend....whereas as you get older and wiser, you too will look back and cringe thinking to yourself "OH MAN WHAT WAS I THINKING dating that loser" lol :) So hang in there....NO ONE is worth taking your own life :(
I was 33 yrs old when I started dating my future husband (we were casual friends for years via us having mutual friends while in our early 20's/early 30's) and we went on to get married while in our 30's, and have 3 great kids together.
I always tell my young adult kids, that IF you want to hear God laugh, tell Him YOUR plans.
:) :) :)
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SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
I know very much about abusive relationships. Please DM me. I want to help you.
Montanaman · M
I'll help you kill him 😎🤭🤫