What’s normal?
What age do people think is normal to lose their virginity ?
18-21, F
InstructHer · 61-69, M
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bijouxbroussard · F
@InstructHer And would you have the same answer if a young man were asking ? 🤔
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@bijouxbroussard I think we all know it would be different. Rules for she, but not for he.
in10RjFox · M
@InstructHer if someone gets wedded by 8 years old ?
NerdyPotato · M
valobasa4ever · F
Softandsweet2 · 31-35, F
Everyone is different - I don’t think there is a “normal” age, but if there is it would be based on the local culture. Most girls I knew in high school had lost their’s long before they graduated. Just be careful and don’t do anything unsafe. Don’t do it unless YOU want to do it.
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@Katie01 no it’s just as weird as it sounds in fact the fact they knew eachother for years before makes it worse. Your boyfriend belongs in jail or this is rage bait x
Katie01 · F
@SparklyBubbles how does it make it worse? When they met, he was 15 so it's really more like a 15 year old and a 13 year old which really isn't a big deal at all
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vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
bijouxbroussard · F
Seriously, it depends on the person and circumstances. I think it’s best to lose it when you’re of age and responsible, to someone who cares about you and isn’t using you. That’s probably not the "norm"—which only means what usually happens. The norm or "normal" is not always positive.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@SilentObZerver yeah no
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@SilentObZerver Gels with my experience in the men department. Have no idea with women never ever talked about it with women I've dated, or been in relationships with. Taboo topic that women only talk about with other women.
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
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ArtieKat · M
I think it depends on where you are in the world. If you take "normal" to mean the median age in statistical terms, then in the UK (where I live) it's 17.
nevergiveup · M
in10RjFox · M
There is no such thing as normal, since it's just a one time thingy. But by nature, puberty is the indication that body is ready for conception.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
different for everyone. mid-20's for me. Was a confusing experience and I still don't understand sex to this day or find it really enjoyable or understand how it fits into the wider scope of relationships. Never been married.
SparklyBubbles · 18-21, F
@zonavar68 maybe you’re asexual ?
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@SparklyBubbles Yeah possible. I've had two great relationships and have four kids between them but to me enjoying sex is still pretty much a mystery and working out how it fits into the bigger picture is a like a black box I can't open.
Beth35 · 36-40, F
13?
Frostcloud · F
idk about everyone else but i didnt till i was almost 21
LilRedGod · 31-35, M
14
LilRedGod · 31-35, M
@SilentObZerver cause I lost it at it and most women I asked said with 13 or 15 14 is the mid to it but now days they loosing it at 12 🤣
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@LilRedGod well i'm probably doing a good job then
LilRedGod · 31-35, M
@SilentObZerver lol welp that's good
SW-User
I would say either eighteen or nineteen years old
SW-User
22 and still virgin here. I have a few friends who are the same way.
tonialta · F
@SW-User That's great you know what you want and need
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
When it is right.
wudifu · 46-50, M
Depends i guess
jackson55 · M
14 to 17.
DaddyThomas · 46-50, M
Around 16 years old
Adogslife · 61-69, M
16-18 would be my guess
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Anytime after 16 is good. You’ve gotten used to your body and are mature enough to have a relationship.
Lostpoet · M
18-20
Pretzel · 61-69, M
Late teens
BatmanIRL · T
I was 14 when I lost mine
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F